Norbert Baran

Feeling lost in life

I'm returning to university after a year's break due to mental health issues. It should be a positive thing, but I no longer have any interest or motivation to study academically. When I started my studies several years ago, I actually enjoyed it, but now it's like all that has disappeared. Nothing about university feels interesting anymore. I feel completely lost. I've tried to apply to other universities in the past, but I wasn't successful and also didn't know what I was looking for. I don't know what's wrong, should I just force myself through university or find something else to do? Finding a simple job doesn't actually sound so bad at the moment, but everyone in my family says that I should invest in my education and get a degree. But it's probably true as others say, that a job without higher education doesn't provide high income. Not sure why I'm writing this, maybe to get some new perspectives. Thank you for reading.

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Lotta Rautio
Lotta Rautio
@crazygoose597379 · Jan 11, 2026 11:58 am

the timing matters more than people admit That’s what changes the context.

Lotta Rautio
Lotta Rautio
@crazygoose597379 · Jan 11, 2026 11:58 am

Reaction: Please do not the gun!

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Kelya Sanchez
Kelya Sanchez
@sadgoose330298 · Jan 11, 2026 11:55 am

Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context.

Kelya Sanchez
Kelya Sanchez
@sadgoose330298 · Jan 11, 2026 11:55 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Martín Giménez
Martín Giménez
@crazycat939242 · Jan 11, 2026 11:54 am

this depends heavily on what happens next which is why this is getting picked apart

Olivia Lucas
Olivia Lucas
@greentiger538986 · Jan 11, 2026 11:50 am

Reaction: The only two I could think of at the top of my head.

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Massi Vieira
Massi Vieira
@happygorilla883630 · Jan 11, 2026 11:50 am

From a practical angle, this solves one problem while creating another

Josefa Delgado
Josefa Delgado
@brownladybug396127 · Jan 11, 2026 11:50 am

Reaction: If I were them, Id hurry up.

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Nicolas Renard
Nicolas Renard
@bigfrog250224 · Jan 11, 2026 11:50 am

From where I sit, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.

Milla Kuusisto
Milla Kuusisto
@tinytiger619788 · Jan 11, 2026 11:50 am

Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit so the response doesn’t surprise me Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Camila Contreras
Camila Contreras
@silverzebra603973 · Jan 11, 2026 11:49 am

Reaction: Just...why??

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Cathrine Løvik
Cathrine Løvik
@goldencat275565 · Jan 11, 2026 11:47 am

At this point, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Héctor Álvarez
Héctor Álvarez
@happytiger673802 · Jan 11, 2026 11:47 am

this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated

Herminia Jennings
Herminia Jennings
@silverleopard975454 · Jan 11, 2026 11:47 am

From a practical angle, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s what people are responding to At least from my perspective.

Herminia Jennings
Herminia Jennings
@silverleopard975454 · Jan 11, 2026 11:46 am

Reaction: Title*

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Harper Brown
Harper Brown
@orangemeercat401627 · Jan 11, 2026 11:46 am

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s the part people are stuck on

Norbert Baran
Norbert Baran
@angryostrich573990 · Jan 11, 2026 11:46 am

From my side, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that friction is hard to ignore

رادین سالاری
رادین سالاری
@angrykoala740134 · Jan 11, 2026 11:42 am

I get the idea, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why opinions are all over the place Not convinced this is settled yet.

Cesar Peña
Cesar Peña
@smallbear176891 · Jan 11, 2026 11:42 am

From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another and that friction is hard to ignore

رادین سالاری
رادین سالاری
@angrykoala740134 · Jan 11, 2026 11:42 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Alex Burke
Alex Burke
@whitepeacock696119 · Jan 11, 2026 11:42 am

Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why this is getting picked apart Not convinced this is settled yet.

Alex Burke
Alex Burke
@whitepeacock696119 · Jan 11, 2026 11:42 am

Reaction: The adjective for metal is metallic, but not so for iron

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Amanda Soto
Amanda Soto
@yellowmeercat122679 · Jan 11, 2026 11:40 am

Trying to be fair, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.

Frenky De Poorter
Frenky De Poorter
@purplerabbit349506 · Jan 11, 2026 11:39 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Bogdan Debus
Bogdan Debus
@brownzebra905295 · Jan 11, 2026 11:37 am

Just reading this, the timing matters more than people admit and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context.

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علی رضا نكو نظر
@happybutterfly444248 · Jan 11, 2026 11:35 am

If you zoom out, the wording alone shifts how people read this Time will tell.

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سارا نجاتی
@smallgoose897858 · Jan 11, 2026 11:33 am

Reaction: If I were them, Id hurry up.

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Gail James
Gail James
@heavybear650658 · Jan 11, 2026 11:33 am

On the surface, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven so the response doesn’t surprise me Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Gonneke De Rover
Gonneke De Rover
@bigcat537357 · Jan 11, 2026 11:32 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Yvonne Faure
Yvonne Faure
@greenswan808806 · Jan 11, 2026 11:31 am

Reaction: Its so lame which is why I dont watch him no more because to lose by something out of your control is so lame. Imagine if shows like Ninja Warrior were the only way to win was by the audienc

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Marion Lemoine
Marion Lemoine
@crazygoose997858 · Jan 11, 2026 11:31 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Harvey Owens
Harvey Owens
@lazymouse255548 · Jan 11, 2026 11:31 am

Just reading this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Pratyush Dhamdhame
Pratyush Dhamdhame
@lazyswan123503 · Jan 11, 2026 11:31 am

If we’re being honest, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.

Starodum Soloviy
Starodum Soloviy
@organicbear362170 · Jan 11, 2026 11:31 am

Looking at this, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.

Alex Burke
Alex Burke
@whitepeacock696119 · Jan 11, 2026 11:30 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s what makes this interesting.

Terra Kelly
Terra Kelly
@bluekoala791463 · Jan 11, 2026 11:30 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s the part people are stuck on

Gaby Gabriels
Gaby Gabriels
@yellowzebra904790 · Jan 11, 2026 11:20 am

Reaction: The fastest path to emptiness

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Gaby Gabriels
Gaby Gabriels
@yellowzebra904790 · Jan 11, 2026 11:20 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what changes the context.

Villads Møller
Villads Møller
@goldenkoala113961 · Jan 11, 2026 11:19 am

From my side, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.

Philip Jensen
Philip Jensen
@silverpeacock471409 · Jan 11, 2026 11:18 am

If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next.

Adrian Williams
Adrian Williams
@crazycat509695 · Jan 11, 2026 11:15 am

Real talk, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified At least from my perspective.

Maëly Francois
Maëly Francois
@lazyostrich237548 · Jan 11, 2026 11:15 am

I get the idea, the timing matters more than people admit That’s the impression it gives me.

Maëly Francois
Maëly Francois
@lazyostrich237548 · Jan 11, 2026 11:15 am

Reaction: Star Wars meme.

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Fidel Candelaria
Fidel Candelaria
@organicmouse983404 · Jan 11, 2026 11:11 am

From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.

Fidel Candelaria
Fidel Candelaria
@organicmouse983404 · Jan 11, 2026 11:11 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Rosel Wölfle
Rosel Wölfle
@smallgoose418897 · Jan 11, 2026 11:11 am

I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the impression it gives me.

Tristan Lam
Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 11, 2026 11:08 am

Looking at this, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.

Cesar Peña
Cesar Peña
@smallbear176891 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

Trying to be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where people will push back Let’s see what happens next.

Oliver Morris
Oliver Morris
@whitegorilla388357 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split

Bogdan Debus
Bogdan Debus
@brownzebra905295 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

Putting bias aside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where it gets complicated Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.

Lada Subašić
Lada Subašić
@heavytiger719502 · Jan 11, 2026 10:58 am

Without overthinking it, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s the key detail here.

Maddison Berry
Maddison Berry
@goldengoose801407 · Jan 11, 2026 10:58 am

On the surface, this solves one problem while creating another which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.

Liliana Lilleeng
Liliana Lilleeng
@organicfish825620 · Jan 11, 2026 10:57 am

the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place This could age very differently in a week.

Starodum Soloviy
Starodum Soloviy
@organicbear362170 · Jan 11, 2026 10:55 am

Honestly, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it.

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بردیا نكو نظر
@whiterabbit521226 · Jan 11, 2026 10:55 am

Real talk, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back

Oliver Morris
Oliver Morris
@whitegorilla388357 · Jan 11, 2026 10:55 am

Just reading this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Dina Gehlen
Dina Gehlen
@tinytiger610531 · Jan 11, 2026 10:55 am

If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next.

Merian Arnoldus
Merian Arnoldus
@greenostrich667504 · Jan 11, 2026 10:54 am

From a practical angle, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.

Clarice Souza
Clarice Souza
@purplesnake190597 · Jan 11, 2026 10:53 am

Real talk, the signal is clear, the strategy less so This could age very differently in a week.

مهدیس زارعی
مهدیس زارعی
@angryfrog755925 · Jan 11, 2026 10:50 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that tension shows up immediately At least from my perspective.

Philip Jensen
Philip Jensen
@silverpeacock471409 · Jan 11, 2026 10:49 am

At this point, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s what people are responding to Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.

Wyatt Gregory
Wyatt Gregory
@bluebear753285 · Jan 11, 2026 10:49 am

From where I sit, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.

Milosav Erceg
Milosav Erceg
@lazydog728533 · Jan 11, 2026 10:49 am

From my side, the signal is clear, the strategy less so so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just my read on it.

Deodato Souza
Deodato Souza
@blackleopard872995 · Jan 11, 2026 10:43 am

Without overthinking it, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where people will push back That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Nevaeh Roberts
Nevaeh Roberts Verified
@whitebear625720 · Jan 11, 2026 10:42 am

If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which explains why reactions are split

Shravya Chiplunkar
Shravya Chiplunkar
@ticklishmouse864824 · Jan 11, 2026 10:24 am

Real talk, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable Time will tell.

Nalan Köybaşı
Nalan Köybaşı
@tinybird957116 · Jan 11, 2026 10:19 am

Reaction: Too real..

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آنیتا جعفری
آنیتا جعفری
@bluelion426398 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: Reality is an Illusion

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Natalija Wachsmuth
Natalija Wachsmuth
@organickoala298750 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: Please change, Reddit. Please change.

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Kristin Harvey
Kristin Harvey
@silvercat686987 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: Please change, Reddit. Please change.

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Madison Taylor
Madison Taylor
@brownkoala338693 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Julia Omahony
Julia Omahony
@yellowzebra836982 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

I get the idea, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time.

Carl Fletcher
Carl Fletcher
@smallfish485966 · Jan 11, 2026 10:15 am

If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Lucas Lavoie
Lucas Lavoie
@whitepanda580706 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what changes the context.