Curious about trauma I never had
So I’ve never been abused or been in a toxic relationship but I like the idea of trauma of being hurt of being changed by something intense and painful I want to know what it’s like to be broken I know abuse is not okay and not smth anyone should wish for but still I want to experience smth that intense and it’s the fact that my mind keeps equating being hurt with being meaningful and I hate thinking that way
It's interesting how some people romanticize trauma, as if it gives depth or meaning to life. But experiencing profound pain isn’t something to be yearned for; it often leaves lasting scars. Seeking emotional growth is valid, but there are healthier ways to achieve that without inflicting
Reaction: Just...why??