Maddison Berry

CMV: People are conflating aspects of being human to symptoms of neurological disorders

I am not what you would call neurotypical—or maybe I am, which is what really gets to the heart of my question. If everyone is neurodivergent, then is no one neurodivergent?
I understand that humans like to categorize things and find patterns as a matter of our evolved humanity, but I’m having trouble squaring the idea that a spectrum and a category seem, in my mind, to be almost opposites. I definitely understand that cognitive and neurological differences can represent a disorder—especially if, in this context, a disorder broadly means that the difference causes an individual hardship in their life or social interactions.
I’ve had my own struggles with OCD and anxiety. At the same time, while many people have labeled my bounding levels of energy as an ADHD symptom, I’ve never actually had an issue focusing, as an example. I guess what this boils down to is that I’m feeling frustrated and confused by how the social internet—especially short-form content—has, in my view, decided that everything under the sun is a symptom of one disorder or another.
It seems to me that sleeping too much and insomnia, hyperfocusing and an inability to focus, extreme energy and low energy, etc., canno

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Esma Koyuncu
Esma Koyuncu
@goldenbear578981 · Jan 12, 2026 3:43 am

From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Interested to see the follow-up.

Barış Akar
Barış Akar
@sadlion862139 · Jan 12, 2026 3:40 am

Without overthinking it, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.

Noemí Lugo
Noemí Lugo
@whitetiger251341 · Jan 12, 2026 3:34 am

At this point, this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.

Gabrielle Walker
Gabrielle Walker
@crazysnake894354 · Jan 12, 2026 3:33 am

this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Aatu Ylitalo
Aatu Ylitalo
@sadtiger829272 · Jan 12, 2026 3:26 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Aatu Ylitalo
Aatu Ylitalo
@sadtiger829272 · Jan 12, 2026 3:25 am

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Igor Rezende
Igor Rezende
@tinyswan300901 · Jan 12, 2026 3:25 am

the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.

هلیا رضایی
هلیا رضایی
@smallpanda323922 · Jan 12, 2026 3:20 am

this feels more about execution than intent This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.

Constantin Horst
Constantin Horst
@purplebear416327 · Jan 12, 2026 3:20 am

Stepping back, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on At least from my perspective.

Emilis Furuseth
Emilis Furuseth
@blackduck490392 · Jan 12, 2026 3:14 am

From a practical angle, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven At least from my perspective.

Tobias Mortensen
Tobias Mortensen
@lazybear374268 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

Not gonna lie, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s the part people are stuck on Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Bernabé Murillo
Bernabé Murillo
@angryrabbit643410 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Rosie Mason
Rosie Mason
@purplebird811797 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

I get the idea, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where it gets complicated

Rosie Mason
Rosie Mason
@purplebird811797 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

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Bratislav Orlić
Bratislav Orlić
@purpleswan672677 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

Putting bias aside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which makes the reaction pretty predictable This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

Lea Nielsen
Lea Nielsen
@smallgorilla715445 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

At first glance, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here.

Uriel Ocasio
Uriel Ocasio
@heavywolf360755 · Jan 12, 2026 2:57 am

From where I sit, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Rolando Quiñones
Rolando Quiñones
@whitegoose495665 · Jan 12, 2026 2:50 am

From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Others will probably see it differently.

Rolando Quiñones
Rolando Quiñones
@whitegoose495665 · Jan 12, 2026 2:50 am

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Zorina Nimchenko
Zorina Nimchenko
@happyelephant614256 · Jan 12, 2026 2:50 am

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Zorina Nimchenko
Zorina Nimchenko
@happyelephant614256 · Jan 12, 2026 2:50 am

Reaction: Damn the Elighisl language

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تینا كامياران
تینا كامياران
@beautifulfrog249551 · Jan 12, 2026 2:45 am

this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back Interested to see the follow-up.

Nicolas Soler
Nicolas Soler
@yellowleopard424245 · Jan 12, 2026 2:42 am

I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent so the response doesn’t surprise me We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.

Nicolas Soler
Nicolas Soler
@yellowleopard424245 · Jan 12, 2026 2:42 am

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مهدیس گلشن
مهدیس گلشن
@angrybear241177 · Jan 12, 2026 2:39 am

this depends heavily on what happens next That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.

Slaviša Majstorović
Slaviša Majstorović
@lazywolf353363 · Jan 12, 2026 2:35 am

Honestly, the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me

Renee Marshall
Renee Marshall
@tinylion361404 · Jan 12, 2026 2:31 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

Suzanne Perry
Suzanne Perry
@bluefrog291402 · Jan 12, 2026 2:28 am

If we’re being honest, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where it gets complicated We’ll see how people react over time.

Suzanne Perry
Suzanne Perry
@bluefrog291402 · Jan 12, 2026 2:28 am

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Siiri Jokinen
Siiri Jokinen
@goldenladybug768444 · Jan 12, 2026 2:23 am

Bluntly speaking, the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why the comments look the way they do Let’s see what happens next.

Josefine Poulsen
Josefine Poulsen
@brownsnake955920 · Jan 12, 2026 2:18 am

Without overthinking it, this depends heavily on what happens next which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. At least from my perspective.

Wenzel Goldberg
Wenzel Goldberg
@blackgoose941562 · Jan 12, 2026 2:16 am

From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so We’ll see how people react over time.

Wenzel Goldberg
Wenzel Goldberg
@blackgoose941562 · Jan 12, 2026 2:16 am

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Asher Zhang
Asher Zhang
@organiclion327442 · Jan 12, 2026 2:13 am

Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another which turns this into more of a debate Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Lauryn Cramer
Lauryn Cramer
@sadsnake234867 · Jan 12, 2026 2:12 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.

Chelsy Briels
Chelsy Briels
@goldengorilla120115 · Jan 12, 2026 1:45 am

From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which makes the reaction pretty predictable Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.

Chelsy Briels
Chelsy Briels
@goldengorilla120115 · Jan 12, 2026 1:45 am

Reaction: The logic is infallible

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Willy Pöhlmann
Willy Pöhlmann
@greenmeercat774999 · Jan 12, 2026 1:45 am

From my side, the main issue seems to be how this is handled

Rafaél Armas
Rafaél Armas
@orangeswan614675 · Jan 12, 2026 1:45 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where the disagreement starts That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.

Kaylee Vargas
Kaylee Vargas
@sadbird937100 · Jan 12, 2026 1:44 am

If you zoom out, this depends heavily on what happens next Curious how this plays out.

Kaylee Vargas
Kaylee Vargas
@sadbird937100 · Jan 12, 2026 1:44 am

Reaction: Me_irl

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