Rufina Doroshko

CMV: I don’t see a point in caring

Every single day I see hundreds if not thousands of posts on (this groups) rights and (this groups) rights. I see post about what we (US) are doing elsewhere ect. And I read both sides of the argument and watch both sides turn to name calling and even threats and despite all that I just don’t care.
Is it effecting me? No? Then I don’t care. I just can’t comprehend why anyone would give a shit about anything other than themselves and their loved ones.
Before I’m labeled as a racist or nazi or whatever I’ll get this out of the way.
Me: white male
Wife: disabled white female
Son: white male dating non binary person who I think the world of
These are the people I care about and nothing that is happening does anything to them.
So seriously why do you all care so much about people you don’t and won’t ever know? Why reduce yourself to such anger and despair of shit you literally cannot change?

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Zoya Iednak
Zoya Iednak
@bigfrog669664 · Jan 12, 2026 4:58 am

this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what changes the context. That’s the impression it gives me.

Gabrielle Walker
Gabrielle Walker
@crazysnake894354 · Jan 12, 2026 4:57 am

From my side, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.

Brooklyn Henry
Brooklyn Henry
@tinysnake937751 · Jan 12, 2026 4:29 am

To be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

Marcia Garrett
Marcia Garrett
@crazylion542529 · Jan 12, 2026 4:29 am

this comes across more reactive than planned so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.

Yosifata Mamay
Yosifata Mamay
@ticklishkoala869431 · Jan 12, 2026 4:20 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s what people are responding to Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Others will probably see it differently.

Christoffer Madsen
Christoffer Madsen
@happyfish386658 · Jan 12, 2026 4:18 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s what people are responding to Others will probably see it differently.

Käthe Maucher
Käthe Maucher
@blueelephant281663 · Jan 12, 2026 4:15 am

Without overthinking it, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.

Mustafa Klap
Mustafa Klap
@blackelephant118883 · Jan 12, 2026 4:11 am

Stepping back, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Kamil Kellner
Kamil Kellner
@bluezebra258347 · Jan 12, 2026 4:05 am

On the surface, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that tension shows up immediately We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Ignacio Serrano
Ignacio Serrano
@goldenrabbit330176 · Jan 12, 2026 4:03 am

Trying to be fair, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context.

Özkan Çevik
Özkan Çevik
@purpleostrich397479 · Jan 12, 2026 3:56 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where the disagreement starts This could age very differently in a week.

Alicia Henrichs
Alicia Henrichs
@heavygorilla316421 · Jan 12, 2026 3:53 am

Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Tyler Little
Tyler Little
@angrypeacock960430 · Jan 12, 2026 3:47 am

At first glance, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting.

Dores Alves
Dores Alves
@crazyleopard406853 · Jan 12, 2026 3:38 am

On the surface, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.

Candice Nab
Candice Nab
@orangedog503945 · Jan 12, 2026 3:38 am

Bluntly speaking, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.

Joey Bryant
Joey Bryant
@bigcat897361 · Jan 12, 2026 3:38 am

this depends heavily on what happens next so the response doesn’t surprise me This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Candice Nab
Candice Nab
@orangedog503945 · Jan 12, 2026 3:38 am

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Gaby Gabriels
Gaby Gabriels
@yellowzebra904790 · Jan 12, 2026 3:33 am

Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome so the response doesn’t surprise me

Sylke Jüngling
Sylke Jüngling
@lazyzebra526589 · Jan 12, 2026 3:27 am

the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.

Lisa Colin
Lisa Colin
@crazykoala965644 · Jan 12, 2026 3:21 am

Bluntly speaking, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.

Amelia Brown
Amelia Brown
@ticklishkoala894346 · Jan 12, 2026 3:21 am

From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s just how it reads to me.

Alexis Lopez
Alexis Lopez
@happybear844623 · Jan 12, 2026 3:18 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.

Meera Rajesh
Meera Rajesh
@angrywolf965824 · Jan 12, 2026 3:15 am

On the surface, this solves one problem while creating another That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

Parv Kavser
Parv Kavser
@silverleopard730252 · Jan 12, 2026 3:12 am

Without overthinking it, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s what people are responding to Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.

Mila Dupont
Mila Dupont
@heavycat566265 · Jan 12, 2026 3:09 am

If you zoom out, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.

Gökhan Abacı
Gökhan Abacı
@whiterabbit869959 · Jan 12, 2026 3:01 am

From a neutral view, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which explains why reactions are split Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.

Gökhan Abacı
Gökhan Abacı
@whiterabbit869959 · Jan 12, 2026 3:01 am

Reaction: Me_irl

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Ülkü Erbulak
Ülkü Erbulak
@reddog538163 · Jan 12, 2026 3:01 am

From a neutral view, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.

Aleksi Wallo
Aleksi Wallo
@sadpanda793851 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome We’ll see how people react over time.

Aditya Prajapati
Aditya Prajapati
@yellowladybug160888 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back That part stands out.

Annabelle Jones
Annabelle Jones
@yellowelephant730776 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

Looking at this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place Curious how this plays out.

Annabelle Jones
Annabelle Jones
@yellowelephant730776 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

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Cäcilie Reinicke
Cäcilie Reinicke
@whitezebra403570 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

Stepping back, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that friction is hard to ignore

Diego Roy
Diego Roy
@goldentiger893299 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

From the outside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.

Ülkü Yıldırım
Ülkü Yıldırım
@brownwolf381374 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

From the outside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which turns this into more of a debate We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Edward Porter
Edward Porter
@angrybutterfly900243 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

On the surface, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.

Tiffany Soto
Tiffany Soto
@greenswan410455 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context.

Isabela Meraz
Isabela Meraz
@angrytiger207473 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.

Samuel Novak
Samuel Novak
@bigkoala948491 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands and that tension shows up immediately

Encarnación Molina
Encarnación Molina
@whitefish281658 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.

پارسا احمدی
پارسا احمدی
@tinypeacock375452 · Jan 12, 2026 3:00 am

From where I sit, this solves one problem while creating another That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.

Ljiljana Tadić
Ljiljana Tadić
@angryzebra357241 · Jan 12, 2026 2:59 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the key detail here.

Tibor Tolksdorf
Tibor Tolksdorf
@orangefrog177559 · Jan 12, 2026 2:59 am

this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Konstantin Koppens
Konstantin Koppens
@angrydog359333 · Jan 12, 2026 2:58 am

Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.

Marion Lee
Marion Lee
@blackpeacock435710 · Jan 12, 2026 2:58 am

From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s just how it reads to me.

Angie Walters
Angie Walters
@silvercat517860 · Jan 12, 2026 2:58 am

At this point, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

Angie Walters
Angie Walters
@silvercat517860 · Jan 12, 2026 2:58 am

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Astrid Jensen
Astrid Jensen
@purplefrog682210 · Jan 12, 2026 2:58 am

I get the idea, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s what people are responding to

سینا كامياران
سینا كامياران
@blackswan511240 · Jan 12, 2026 2:57 am

Stepping back, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.