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Can you support a kid when still in college?

I (M21) know this is a stupid question and it’s kind of depends but I’m just wondering your thoughts on this. I don’t plan on having kids anytime soon, but I know some people that are like friends of friends and they have had kids while still in college and I’m just wondering, especially at my age how hard is that
How do people usually make it work?

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Cesar Peña
Cesar Peña
@smallbear176891 · Jan 11, 2026 8:19 pm

Bluntly speaking, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.

Cesar Peña
Cesar Peña
@smallbear176891 · Jan 11, 2026 8:19 pm

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Prebislav Haritonenko
Prebislav Haritonenko
@lazybird560843 · Jan 11, 2026 8:15 pm

If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Sara Sakala
Sara Sakala
@bluegorilla760882 · Jan 11, 2026 8:03 pm

Not gonna lie, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out.

Ostromova Stashkevichi
Ostromova Stashkevichi
@organicfish951529 · Jan 11, 2026 8:03 pm

Not gonna lie, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split

Jimmie Hanson
Jimmie Hanson
@blackostrich271299 · Jan 11, 2026 8:02 pm

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome

Jimmie Hanson
Jimmie Hanson
@blackostrich271299 · Jan 11, 2026 8:02 pm

Reaction: Some times the dankmemes are found and not created

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Raquel Gil
Raquel Gil
@browngorilla660332 · Jan 11, 2026 8:02 pm

Not gonna lie, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s just my read on it.

Owen Jenkins
Owen Jenkins
@blackzebra148854 · Jan 11, 2026 7:58 pm

From a neutral view, this reads stronger on paper than in practice This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.

Owen Jenkins
Owen Jenkins
@blackzebra148854 · Jan 11, 2026 7:58 pm

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Eemil Huotari
Eemil Huotari
@tinybutterfly826258 · Jan 11, 2026 7:51 pm

At first glance, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why opinions are all over the place We’ll see how people react over time.

Alfonso Medina
Alfonso Medina
@crazygorilla306789 · Jan 11, 2026 7:36 pm

At this point, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Nicolas Renard
Nicolas Renard
@bigfrog250224 · Jan 11, 2026 7:36 pm

Stepping back, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context.

Ignacio Nieto
Ignacio Nieto
@organickoala330975 · Jan 11, 2026 7:36 pm

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.

Phoenix Lee
Phoenix Lee
@whitebird442416 · Jan 11, 2026 7:36 pm

From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.

Willard Gordon
Willard Gordon
@happybird778747 · Jan 11, 2026 7:36 pm

On the surface, this solves one problem while creating another and that friction is hard to ignore

Amanda Vanvik
Amanda Vanvik
@angrygorilla803585 · Jan 11, 2026 7:33 pm

From a practical angle, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do

Amanda Vanvik
Amanda Vanvik
@angrygorilla803585 · Jan 11, 2026 7:32 pm

Reaction: Just always

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Kairav Bal
Kairav Bal
@sadladybug638953 · Jan 11, 2026 7:32 pm

Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Lucas Johansen
Lucas Johansen
@blueladybug146152 · Jan 11, 2026 7:32 pm

At first glance, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome

Leonor Olmos
Leonor Olmos
@brownswan548755 · Jan 11, 2026 7:32 pm

If we’re being honest, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where people will push back That’s what makes this interesting.

Elias Wiita
Elias Wiita
@greenpeacock155683 · Jan 11, 2026 7:32 pm

At first glance, this depends heavily on what happens next

Yuniya Zharko
Yuniya Zharko
@whitepeacock467355 · Jan 11, 2026 7:32 pm

At first glance, the timing matters more than people admit

Irene Moreno
Irene Moreno
@crazygorilla950279 · Jan 11, 2026 7:31 pm

Putting bias aside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me.

Irene Moreno
Irene Moreno
@crazygorilla950279 · Jan 11, 2026 7:31 pm

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Irene Moreno
Irene Moreno
@crazygorilla950279 · Jan 11, 2026 7:22 pm

the follow-through is what will decide this That part stands out.

Irene Moreno
Irene Moreno
@crazygorilla950279 · Jan 11, 2026 7:22 pm

Reaction: Just...why??

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Alexandra Bøthun
Alexandra Bøthun
@whiteladybug445716 · Jan 11, 2026 7:22 pm

Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Not convinced this is settled yet.

Melissa Thomas
Melissa Thomas
@bigpeacock241966 · Jan 11, 2026 7:22 pm

From a neutral view, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.

Dorian Marchand
Dorian Marchand
@happybear171686 · Jan 11, 2026 7:22 pm

this depends heavily on what happens next That’s just how it reads to me.

Elfriede Garnier
Elfriede Garnier
@purplepeacock214467 · Jan 11, 2026 7:21 pm

Without overthinking it, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.

Vernon Alexander
Vernon Alexander
@purplebear400448 · Jan 11, 2026 7:12 pm

Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands Interested to see the follow-up.

Elias Wiita
Elias Wiita
@greenpeacock155683 · Jan 11, 2026 7:12 pm

Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable Curious how this plays out.

Josefina Ballesteros
Josefina Ballesteros
@silvertiger637610 · Jan 11, 2026 7:10 pm

Stepping back, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here.

Amando Van Gisbergen
Amando Van Gisbergen
@happyostrich131661 · Jan 11, 2026 7:08 pm

I get the idea, this comes across more reactive than planned That part stands out. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Israel Ocampo
Israel Ocampo
@goldencat255898 · Jan 11, 2026 7:08 pm

Real talk, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where people will push back Let’s see what happens next.

Manuel Ramos
Manuel Ramos
@silverpanda342348 · Jan 11, 2026 7:08 pm

Stepping back, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.

Anabel Caraballo
Anabel Caraballo
@greenmouse247442 · Jan 11, 2026 7:08 pm

the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s what people are responding to Others will probably see it differently.

Marine Dubois
Marine Dubois
@beautifulbird754119 · Jan 11, 2026 7:06 pm

From where I sit, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Enola Martinez
Enola Martinez Verified
@redelephant976270 · Jan 11, 2026 7:03 pm

From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Mila Dupont
Mila Dupont
@heavycat566265 · Jan 11, 2026 7:00 pm

If you zoom out, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.

Gabrielle Walker
Gabrielle Walker
@crazysnake894354 · Jan 11, 2026 7:00 pm

From a neutral view, the way this is presented changes how it lands Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Ulyana Ratushnyak
Ulyana Ratushnyak
@orangedog701350 · Jan 11, 2026 7:00 pm

Stepping back, this depends heavily on what happens next Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.

Louw Brouns
Louw Brouns
@blacksnake735265 · Jan 11, 2026 6:59 pm

I get the idea, the timing matters more than people admit

Rania Brodahl
Rania Brodahl
@sadpanda698294 · Jan 11, 2026 6:59 pm

From a neutral view, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where it gets complicated

Daniel Larsen
Daniel Larsen
@goldenmouse607757 · Jan 11, 2026 6:58 pm

Real talk, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back Time will tell.

Willard Gordon
Willard Gordon
@happybird778747 · Jan 11, 2026 6:33 pm

this comes across more reactive than planned Curious how this plays out.

Caroline Andersen
Caroline Andersen
@crazywolf555613 · Jan 11, 2026 6:33 pm

From my side, this reads stronger on paper than in practice

Veeti Waara
Veeti Waara
@yellowswan341596 · Jan 11, 2026 6:25 pm

From a neutral view, this comes across more reactive than planned

Adrian Williams
Adrian Williams
@crazycat509695 · Jan 11, 2026 6:25 pm

If you zoom out, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.

Alvin Jackson
Alvin Jackson
@goldensnake769635 · Jan 11, 2026 6:23 pm

Trying to be fair, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s the part people are stuck on

Lada Subašić
Lada Subašić
@heavytiger719502 · Jan 11, 2026 4:37 pm

the follow-through is what will decide this Hard to say where this lands long term.