Why does solitude change people so much?
I’m genuinely curious and would love outside perspectives. I’ve noticed that spending time alone (by choice, not isolation) seems to change how people think, feel, and move through life.
For those who’ve experienced it—what changed for you? Was it positive, uncomfortable, or both?
I’m asking respectfully and with an open mind!
Putting bias aside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage
On the surface, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts
From where I sit, this comes across more reactive than planned Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, the way this is presented changes how it lands Time will tell.
I get the idea, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that friction is hard to ignore Interested to see the follow-up.
If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Stepping back, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context.
To be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this Curious how this plays out.
I get the idea, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts
I get the idea, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.
Without overthinking it, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me
the signal is clear, the strategy less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable Let’s see what happens next.
From where I sit, the follow-through is what will decide this which explains why reactions are split Feels like there’s more coming here.
this solves one problem while creating another Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where people will push back This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Time will tell.
At first glance, this feels rushed rather than thought through This could age very differently in a week.
Reaction: Damn the Elighisl language
Just reading this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.
Not gonna lie, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
On the surface, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
Reaction: FFS ... Meh
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s the part people are stuck on This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
Reaction: the collection of colorful pens
Not gonna lie, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Real talk, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what makes this interesting.
At this point, this solves one problem while creating another which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it. Others will probably see it differently.
Honestly, the main issue seems to be how this is handled This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Reaction: French is so hard
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Bluntly speaking, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out.
Stepping back, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
Trying to be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Without overthinking it, the signal is clear, the strategy less so
On the surface, this feels more about execution than intent which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: Hate when it happens
From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this
Putting bias aside, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where people will push back We’ll see how people react over time.
this feels more about execution than intent and that’s what people are responding to Interested to see the follow-up.
If you zoom out, the way this is presented changes how it lands That part stands out.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s just my read on it.
From where I sit, this feels like a half-step, not a full move
From a neutral view, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: When the villian catches the hero:
Honestly, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s the part people are stuck on Interested to see the follow-up.
To be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned which turns this into more of a debate Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
I get the idea, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.