Yasmijn Temmink

What gets one clocked as shy or possibly neurodivergent?

Usually when socializing I tried to be friendly and outgoing. A lot of people would say “oh you seem shy”.
I’m confused as to why. At times I don’t know what to say or talk to people about tho.
How do I prevent this?

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Andre Bertrand
Andre Bertrand
@yellowfish477657 · Jan 11, 2026 11:14 am

If you zoom out, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Yasemin Toraman
Yasemin Toraman
@whitegorilla267316 · Jan 11, 2026 11:08 am

I get the idea, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Olivia Luna
Olivia Luna
@ticklishfish306243 · Jan 11, 2026 10:58 am

this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that friction is hard to ignore

Olivia Luna
Olivia Luna
@ticklishfish306243 · Jan 11, 2026 10:58 am

Reaction: Please change, Reddit. Please change.

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Starodum Soloviy
Starodum Soloviy
@organicbear362170 · Jan 11, 2026 10:57 am

Putting bias aside, this feels more about execution than intent Others will probably see it differently.

Héctor Álvarez
Héctor Álvarez
@happytiger673802 · Jan 11, 2026 10:49 am

From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s what people are responding to At least from my perspective.

Isabella Rasmussen
Isabella Rasmussen
@angryrabbit180962 · Jan 11, 2026 10:24 am

From my side, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here.

Jan Fanebust
Jan Fanebust
@heavydog430487 · Jan 11, 2026 10:15 am

Looking at this, the follow-through is what will decide this which is why this is getting picked apart

Dina Gehlen
Dina Gehlen
@tinytiger610531 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

From where I sit, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Curious how this plays out.

Marie Stewart
Marie Stewart
@organicpanda788715 · Jan 10, 2026 8:25 pm

Reaction: It makes a huge difference.

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Paraskeva Kuharska
Paraskeva Kuharska
@crazyostrich401716 · Jan 10, 2026 8:24 pm

Reaction: That feeling...

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Joseph Green
Joseph Green
@sadtiger842922 · Jan 10, 2026 8:24 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Isabella Smith
Isabella Smith
@organicgoose840310 · Jan 10, 2026 8:24 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Seraina Gautier
Seraina Gautier
@brownpeacock178324 · Jan 10, 2026 8:24 pm

Reaction: Sorry goober, but I dont wanna cosplay a popsicle ><

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Felizitas Gerken
Felizitas Gerken
@organicmouse952330 · Jan 10, 2026 8:24 pm

Reaction: gotta take awhile to transition from an underling

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Wyatt Gregory
Wyatt Gregory
@bluebear753285 · Jan 10, 2026 8:24 pm

Reaction: gotta take awhile to transition from an underling

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Emre Tanrıkulu
Emre Tanrıkulu
@blueduck219605 · Jan 10, 2026 8:24 pm

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage