Well...
So I had my work meeting I mentioned a few times and it went ok...they gave me my final warning and it's whatever 🙄 but I think the thing that hurt the most was all the talking behind my back about me being trans...they bullied me so much I went back to boy mode there anyways and thank God I did...the lies that came out and just the stuff they said was eye opening and very hurtful. I dunno if u ever meet a trans person be nice I guess...I dunno I feel kinda hollow but like I've said I need this job so it's pick ur battles 😭 anyway I'm ok for now if anyone was following along and wondering...still not convinced I'm out of the woods cause my boss leaves March and I still feel they could walk me out with her but I'll be saving and wary until then. Love ya guys. Have a good weekend 😬
Edit- ugh I'm actually really sad about the bullying part like I know it happens but I really really hate me in boy mode and yeah I've been back in it for awhile at work it hurts and it's scary knowing how much people didn't like me when I finally felt happy and like me...I don't even feel safe going to hr and I don't have friends or access to party drugs....I guess there's edibles and bed rot. Fuuuuuuuck
Reaction: me irl
I get the idea, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
If you zoom out, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the key detail here.
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me.
Stepping back, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: me_irl
this feels more about execution than intent which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where the disagreement starts That part stands out. Interested to see the follow-up.
Putting bias aside, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated
From where I sit, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out. Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
At this point, this feels more about execution than intent At least from my perspective.
Putting bias aside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Stepping back, this depends heavily on what happens next
this depends heavily on what happens next Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Not gonna lie, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s the part people are stuck on This could age very differently in a week.
Looking at this, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where the disagreement starts That part stands out. Curious how this plays out.
this comes across more reactive than planned so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out.
Reaction: And I always fall for it!
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Real talk, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
From where I sit, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone At least from my perspective.
Without overthinking it, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s the part people are stuck on Hard to say where this lands long term.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why this is getting picked apart Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Others will probably see it differently.
From my side, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on
From where I sit, this depends heavily on what happens next so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: Reality is an Illusion
Reaction: Conformity Gate
If you zoom out, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place
Reaction: me_irl
Stepping back, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s the impression it gives me.