Watching OF when you're in a relationship is cheating.
Regular old-fashioned porn is fine, of course.
If I was thinking of getting together with a
guy and I find out he watches someone(s) on OF, that's a no for me. I'll pass. If we are dating already, I genuinely would consider that grounds for a breakup, and yes, even a divorce if we're married. I'm outta here.
Why? There's an emotional connection. You could have seen every skin cell on a regular pornstar's snatch, and wouldn't know what her favourite color is, wouldn't even know if her eyes are hazel or green. You don't follow her on Twitter. You don't even know her real name.
But the gamer girl whose OF you're subscribed to? That's different. You know what her laugh sounds like. You think she's cool for reading the entire X-Men comics. You know she likes some random European candy no one's ever heard of. You think she's cultured for knowing Spanish. You think of her when you see them. You randomly think of something she said during a livestream and you smile to yourself. You like her. There's some emotional connection there. You follow her across all socials, fantasise about doing cute girlfriend things with her. It's different.
I think it's cheating, emotionally, like.
I get where you're coming from, but calling it cheating seems a bit extremepeople can appreciate someone online without it meaning theyre not committed to their