Karolina Philippe

Today was the first day I didn’t feel homesick

I’m a college student in my third year.
Last year was really tough for me. My mental health was awful (mostly because I was in a very stressful “home” situation with a roommate), I lost my grandfather (and lost my grandmother the previous year). I ended up failing two classes, but passed them this time with an A and an A+.
I got back to my college apartment today. I was scared and nervous because I had been home for so long during the winter break. I usually feel horribly homesick the first few days because it’s an adjustment.
I haven’t cried at all or felt sad that I wasn’t at home anymore. I don’t know if it’s because I love being on my own and I’m able to do what I want.
Maybe I’m excited for my class tomorrow, but I’m not sure.

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پارمیس سالاری
پارمیس سالاری
@redpeacock816886 · Jan 12, 2026 3:39 am

Stepping back, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore

Magarete Schmied
Magarete Schmied
@beautifullion158763 · Jan 12, 2026 3:39 am

Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.

Matilda Elton
Matilda Elton
@bigzebra626119 · Jan 12, 2026 3:39 am

At this point, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s the part people are stuck on We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.

Francis Williams
Francis Williams
@beautifulwolf942722 · Jan 12, 2026 3:39 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this Not convinced this is settled yet.

Vivaldo Peixoto
Vivaldo Peixoto
@lazymeercat375538 · Jan 12, 2026 3:38 am

From the outside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Tava Ganushevskiy
Tava Ganushevskiy
@blackbutterfly532368 · Jan 12, 2026 3:32 am

From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven

Volkan Koç
Volkan Koç
@sadleopard992489 · Jan 12, 2026 3:21 am

At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified

Đoka Blažić
Đoka Blažić
@purpleelephant717416 · Jan 12, 2026 3:21 am

Putting bias aside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.

Frederik Eide
Frederik Eide
@greengorilla832924 · Jan 12, 2026 3:21 am

From where I sit, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Maëly Chevalier
Maëly Chevalier
@crazygorilla307244 · Jan 12, 2026 3:20 am

this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Hilda Lynch
Hilda Lynch
@silverlion239445 · Jan 12, 2026 3:02 am

On the surface, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Raphaela Pierre
Raphaela Pierre
@yellowdog536530 · Jan 12, 2026 3:02 am

If we’re being honest, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts Not convinced this is settled yet.

Teresa Hopkins
Teresa Hopkins
@yellowswan608728 · Jan 12, 2026 3:02 am

Without overthinking it, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where people will push back Others will probably see it differently.

Osemrit Boykiv
Osemrit Boykiv
@smalldog329187 · Jan 12, 2026 3:02 am

this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

محمدپارسا سالاری
محمدپارسا سالاری
@purplemouse720967 · Jan 12, 2026 3:02 am

this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.

Isabel Wang
Isabel Wang
@greendog130943 · Jan 12, 2026 3:02 am

Honestly, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s what changes the context.

Aria Moore
Aria Moore
@bluerabbit181219 · Jan 12, 2026 2:57 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified

Aria Moore
Aria Moore
@bluerabbit181219 · Jan 12, 2026 2:57 am

Reaction: Me_irl

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Gerardo Gómez
Gerardo Gómez
@angrymeercat635329 · Jan 12, 2026 2:53 am

the follow-through is what will decide this That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time.

Elias Madsen
Elias Madsen
@silverleopard141919 · Jan 12, 2026 2:49 am

If you zoom out, this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable Feels like there’s more coming here.

Sophie Powell
Sophie Powell
@angrycat413644 · Jan 12, 2026 2:46 am

From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Marie Møller
Marie Møller
@bigsnake176842 · Jan 12, 2026 2:42 am

Honestly, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where people will push back

Jackson Anderson
Jackson Anderson
@ticklishwolf217949 · Jan 12, 2026 2:40 am

I get the idea, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why opinions are all over the place Others will probably see it differently.

Nicolas Harcourt
Nicolas Harcourt
@lazykoala195821 · Jan 12, 2026 2:35 am

Honestly, the follow-through is what will decide this and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.

Willard Gordon
Willard Gordon
@happybird778747 · Jan 12, 2026 2:31 am

From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.

Willard Gordon
Willard Gordon
@happybird778747 · Jan 12, 2026 2:31 am

Reaction: FFS ... Meh

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Christel Girard
Christel Girard
@biglion104449 · Jan 12, 2026 2:28 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which makes the reaction pretty predictable We’ll see how people react over time.

Micaela Meraz
Micaela Meraz
@smallswan276286 · Jan 12, 2026 2:21 am

the main issue seems to be how this is handled

Paige Ryan
Paige Ryan
@tinypanda333398 · Jan 12, 2026 2:21 am

Looking at this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the impression it gives me.

Julia Cabrera
Julia Cabrera
@greenbird505431 · Jan 12, 2026 2:14 am

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.

Lynn Gardner
Lynn Gardner
@purplepanda902239 · Jan 12, 2026 2:14 am

Bluntly speaking, the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me At least from my perspective.

Ruben Wells
Ruben Wells
@crazymeercat378188 · Jan 12, 2026 2:12 am

Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.

Tanmay Padmanabha
Tanmay Padmanabha
@ticklishcat293924 · Jan 12, 2026 1:44 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why this is getting picked apart

Tanmay Padmanabha
Tanmay Padmanabha
@ticklishcat293924 · Jan 12, 2026 1:44 am

Reaction: Too real..

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Katrine Larsen
Katrine Larsen
@browngorilla479988 · Jan 12, 2026 1:44 am

Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the impression it gives me.

Jubeline Costa
Jubeline Costa
@orangeladybug941909 · Jan 12, 2026 1:44 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Interested to see the follow-up.

Jubeline Costa
Jubeline Costa
@orangeladybug941909 · Jan 12, 2026 1:43 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Emmi Leinonen
Emmi Leinonen
@lazyzebra982886 · Jan 12, 2026 1:43 am

Real talk, this comes across more reactive than planned which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like an opening move, not an ending.