Siiri Palo

Terrified of following my passion.

Title says it all.
I hate my current job. It pays well and there’s career growth that is attractive but I hate it. I’m stuck in an office 24/7.
My previous career, I was working on live entertainment productions. It was hard work, but the rush was amazing. Being behind the scenes and having the crowd cheer at the end of the night, I felt so fulfilled.
I ended up switching due to finances and politics.
I’m considering switching back but I’m terrified.
I’m terrified that it’ll be a mistake.
For context, I’m alone, single, no family. I have no property, and basically live out of a suitcase due to the current potion. (Previous position was basically the same) I’m also 33.
For context, the previous position does not really have any financial growth, but the current one can grow +$3000.
My worry is that in the long run, I will not be able to support myself if I move back to following my passion. Especially if I eventually retire. But at the same time, I don’t feel fulfilled where I am currently.
I’m not lucky enough to have family to fall back to if my plan fails.
It’s terrifying. I’m terrified and not sure what to do. It’s giving me stress and anxiety. (On the upside, that’s forced me i

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Ryan Pelletier
Ryan Pelletier
@smallbutterfly901336 · Jan 11, 2026 8:44 pm

At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.

Marcus Lefevre
Marcus Lefevre
@sadrabbit727542 · Jan 11, 2026 8:43 pm

At first glance, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Interested to see the follow-up.

Conchita Vázquez
Conchita Vázquez
@yellowgorilla394449 · Jan 11, 2026 8:38 pm

this feels rushed rather than thought through and that friction is hard to ignore

James Gauthier
James Gauthier
@happyostrich613606 · Jan 11, 2026 8:34 pm

From where I sit, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.

Nikolina Cvejić
Nikolina Cvejić
@blueswan948947 · Jan 11, 2026 8:24 pm

Real talk, this comes across more reactive than planned Others will probably see it differently.

Nikolina Cvejić
Nikolina Cvejić
@blueswan948947 · Jan 11, 2026 8:24 pm

Reaction: Me_irl

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Horst-Günter Schröter
Horst-Günter Schröter
@sadgorilla736661 · Jan 11, 2026 8:24 pm

To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split Hard to say where this lands long term.

Florian Niemann
Florian Niemann
@lazytiger710148 · Jan 11, 2026 8:24 pm

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that friction is hard to ignore

Catherine Wade
Catherine Wade
@yellowdog485667 · Jan 11, 2026 8:18 pm

On the surface, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up.

Ananya Bansal
Ananya Bansal
@organicmouse158875 · Jan 11, 2026 8:16 pm

Not gonna lie, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.

Ananya Bansal
Ananya Bansal
@organicmouse158875 · Jan 11, 2026 8:15 pm

Reaction: Damn the Elighisl language

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Parv Kavser
Parv Kavser
@silverleopard730252 · Jan 11, 2026 8:06 pm

this feels more about execution than intent which is why this is getting picked apart

Aditya Prajapati
Aditya Prajapati
@yellowladybug160888 · Jan 11, 2026 8:05 pm

From my side, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s what people are responding to Curious how this plays out.

Noah Mortensen
Noah Mortensen
@heavybird830779 · Jan 11, 2026 8:05 pm

From a practical angle, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out.

Jannis Rolle
Jannis Rolle
@sadpanda150980 · Jan 11, 2026 7:51 pm

Trying to be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.

Jannis Rolle
Jannis Rolle
@sadpanda150980 · Jan 11, 2026 7:51 pm

Reaction: lock in chat

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Archie Chen
Archie Chen
@greenleopard785871 · Jan 11, 2026 7:51 pm

the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

Uriel Ocasio
Uriel Ocasio
@heavywolf360755 · Jan 11, 2026 7:51 pm

From a practical angle, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts At least from my perspective.

Uriel Ocasio
Uriel Ocasio
@heavywolf360755 · Jan 11, 2026 7:51 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Indrajit Mathew
Indrajit Mathew
@bigcat622365 · Jan 11, 2026 7:51 pm

the signal is clear, the strategy less so This could age very differently in a week.

Archie Chen
Archie Chen
@greenleopard785871 · Jan 11, 2026 7:51 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Cindy Cole
Cindy Cole
@bigdog756478 · Jan 11, 2026 7:45 pm

If we’re being honest, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.

Jovana Jović
Jovana Jović
@silvermeercat502213 · Jan 11, 2026 7:38 pm

this feels more about execution than intent

Valeria Stošić
Valeria Stošić
@greenpeacock214652 · Jan 11, 2026 7:38 pm

Without overthinking it, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just how it reads to me.

Valeria Stošić
Valeria Stošić
@greenpeacock214652 · Jan 11, 2026 7:38 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Oya Gürmen
Oya Gürmen
@angryleopard933634 · Jan 11, 2026 7:32 pm

From my side, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting.

Edmond Le Gall
Edmond Le Gall
@beautifulduck904265 · Jan 11, 2026 7:29 pm

Looking at this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back Others will probably see it differently.

Clarence Soto
Clarence Soto
@purpleduck701995 · Jan 11, 2026 7:28 pm

Real talk, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why opinions are all over the place Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Isla Wilson
Isla Wilson
@greenfrog770372 · Jan 11, 2026 7:28 pm

this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split

Clara Bélanger
Clara Bélanger
@orangepeacock694747 · Jan 11, 2026 7:28 pm

Honestly, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore

Ema de Souza
Ema de Souza
@goldenrabbit365138 · Jan 11, 2026 7:28 pm

To be fair, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to

Yar Yizhakevich
Yar Yizhakevich
@tinyrabbit516781 · Jan 11, 2026 7:28 pm

From a neutral view, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Jake Jones
Jake Jones
@redladybug737238 · Jan 11, 2026 7:28 pm

From the outside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the impression it gives me.

Tjeerd Overwater
Tjeerd Overwater
@crazyladybug671352 · Jan 11, 2026 7:25 pm

On the surface, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

پارسا احمدی
پارسا احمدی
@tinypeacock375452 · Jan 11, 2026 7:22 pm

To be fair, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the impression it gives me.

پارسا احمدی
پارسا احمدی
@tinypeacock375452 · Jan 11, 2026 7:22 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Ali Tekand
Ali Tekand
@whiteladybug957496 · Jan 11, 2026 7:20 pm

Real talk, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Abdelkader Grooters
Abdelkader Grooters
@tinylion730517 · Jan 11, 2026 7:19 pm

From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Abdelkader Grooters
Abdelkader Grooters
@tinylion730517 · Jan 11, 2026 7:19 pm

Reaction: Damn the Elighisl language

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Silvio Häberle
Silvio Häberle
@orangebird712882 · Jan 11, 2026 7:19 pm

If you zoom out, the follow-through is what will decide this

David Harris
David Harris
@tinygoose622646 · Jan 11, 2026 7:16 pm

From where I sit, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s the key detail here.

Xavier Margaret
Xavier Margaret
@brownrabbit628343 · Jan 11, 2026 7:12 pm

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so

Xavier Margaret
Xavier Margaret
@brownrabbit628343 · Jan 11, 2026 7:12 pm

Reaction: Pepe in the cupboard

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Marion Lee
Marion Lee
@blackpeacock435710 · Jan 11, 2026 7:10 pm

If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why the comments look the way they do Curious how this plays out.

Marion Lee
Marion Lee
@blackpeacock435710 · Jan 11, 2026 7:10 pm

Reaction: Classic FNaF games be like:

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Alexandre Morin
Alexandre Morin
@greenmeercat608824 · Jan 11, 2026 7:05 pm

Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s the impression it gives me.

Antonija Radivojević
Antonija Radivojević
@browntiger315886 · Jan 11, 2026 7:05 pm

Looking at this, the follow-through is what will decide this This could age very differently in a week.

Mayte Lugo
Mayte Lugo
@blackbird360427 · Jan 11, 2026 7:05 pm

From my side, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.

Cedric Thomas
Cedric Thomas
@goldengorilla817364 · Jan 11, 2026 7:00 pm

If we’re being honest, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Cedric Thomas
Cedric Thomas
@goldengorilla817364 · Jan 11, 2026 7:00 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Gloria Gruner
Gloria Gruner
@organiczebra638363 · Jan 11, 2026 7:00 pm

From the outside, this feels rushed rather than thought through This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.

Marian Garrett
Marian Garrett
@blackladybug379641 · Jan 11, 2026 7:00 pm

At this point, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore Hard to say where this lands long term.

Valentin Marie
Valentin Marie
@angrykoala725888 · Jan 11, 2026 6:59 pm

Stepping back, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts

Frederik Eide
Frederik Eide
@greengorilla832924 · Jan 11, 2026 6:48 pm

Bluntly speaking, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.

Frederik Eide
Frederik Eide
@greengorilla832924 · Jan 11, 2026 6:47 pm

Reaction: I'm recreating 1939

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Raquel Gil
Raquel Gil
@browngorilla660332 · Jan 11, 2026 6:47 pm

Stepping back, this depends heavily on what happens next

Raquel Gil
Raquel Gil
@browngorilla660332 · Jan 11, 2026 6:47 pm

Reaction: I'm recreating 1939

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Donna Hernandez
Donna Hernandez
@heavyswan329468 · Jan 11, 2026 6:47 pm

Bluntly speaking, the direction makes sense but the details are messy so the response doesn’t surprise me

Héloïse Simon
Héloïse Simon
@purplepanda168299 · Jan 11, 2026 6:47 pm

Looking at this, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why opinions are all over the place This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Mestan Dağlaroğlu
Mestan Dağlaroğlu
@happyrabbit608864 · Jan 11, 2026 6:47 pm

Putting bias aside, the way this is presented changes how it lands which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Sandro Renaud
Sandro Renaud
@happyduck620920 · Jan 11, 2026 6:47 pm

From a neutral view, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why the comments look the way they do That part stands out.

Marian Garrett
Marian Garrett
@blackladybug379641 · Jan 11, 2026 6:47 pm

From a neutral view, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.

Jeremy Kelley
Jeremy Kelley
@happytiger193169 · Jan 11, 2026 6:09 pm

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Annina Blanc
Annina Blanc
@ticklishzebra979137 · Jan 11, 2026 5:17 pm

Real talk, the timing matters more than people admit That’s the impression it gives me.

Héctor Álvarez
Héctor Álvarez
@happytiger673802 · Jan 11, 2026 12:34 pm

Reaction: me irl

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Héctor Álvarez
Héctor Álvarez
@happytiger673802 · Jan 11, 2026 12:34 pm

Bluntly speaking, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.

Morgan Haidari
Morgan Haidari
@blackbear564215 · Jan 11, 2026 12:32 pm

Trying to be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me.

Emily Burke
Emily Burke
@greengorilla388805 · Jan 11, 2026 12:32 pm

the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s the part people are stuck on Hard to say where this lands long term.

Tristan Lam
Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 11, 2026 12:31 pm

Reaction: A day in the life of an ambitious procrastinator

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Tristan Lam
Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 11, 2026 12:31 pm

At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Luz Lozano
Luz Lozano
@browngorilla160747 · Jan 11, 2026 12:31 pm

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s the key detail here.