No backbone with my ex leads to my constant humiliation
I’m not really sure why this was his end goal to be honest. We broke up on his terms, I didn’t want to get back together after stewing about the breakup for months. I did love him but I felt like I couldn’t commit the same way. Not because I didn’t want to but because I was terrified he’d up and leave me again. I didn’t want the up and downs. And I certainly did not want an on and off again relationship. What did I get instead? A situationship! and I was in misery. I didn’t have the backbone to say no to him, in fact I could never deny him which looking back was so sad and pathetic. I was young and stupid. It was my first relationship, I had missed all the highschool milestones, which also meant all the heartbreak and growth.
Looking back on some of the conversations we’d have post coitus when we were still actively together, I really should’ve run for the hills. “Don’t worry I’m not using you, you’d definitely know if I was” as I’d sit on his bed smiling like an idiot thinking “oh he’ll never use me! Surely not lil ol’ me?!” So when all of a sudden he’s sending me straight home afterwards with not so much as a hug or a kiss goodbye I started to realize what was happening. Once the
If we’re being honest, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
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At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.
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this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where people will push back Curious how this plays out.