My mom is my biggest hater
It doesnt even get to me, hasn't since like 14ish. I just think "damn, thats something else" whenever she does it.
For context shes VERY materialistic, it doesnt take a genius or a marriage counselor to see shes a horrible wife. Her entire life has been about "me, me and me" what can you do for me? What purpose do you serve in my life? And so on. She has never held a job in her life (not joking, her resume includes "stay at home mom" even though she was a horrible mother and her youngest kid is 22) and shes very money hungry. Nothing dad does is ever good enough for her even though he works his ass off.
Anyway so before I bought my house i paid 1750 im rent. I lived a very frugal, bare bone expenses life. Once in a blue moon id buy something for myself. Her comments always included "wasting money(rent)" when id buy myself something "pues como tines dinero" passive aggressive "you've got money"
When I bought my house "I hope you dont lose it" "you couldve bought a better house" (its a fixer upper) ive been fixing stuff since I bought it and ill be talking to dad about the stuff ive been doing and mom would just come around "well you got money, hopefully you don't get foreclosed"
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It’s tough when a parent’s expectations feel distant from your reality. Your ability to dismiss that negativity shows impressive emotional strength. It’s important to forge your own path, and it sounds like you’re doing just that—don’t let her materialism define your worth.
Reaction: Its so lame which is why I dont watch him no more because to lose by something out of your control is so lame. Imagine if shows like Ninja Warrior were the only way to win was by the audienc