My friendship is over and I Don’t know what to do
Throw away account, I Don’t use my main a lot but I Have more personal details and pictures on it.
Valerie (27F) and I (24M) have been friends for about 4 years. I lived in that country for a few years as a proselyting missionary for my church. We kept in contact throughout vía email and have since since moved back to my home country about 3 years ago. We have kept in close contact vía social media since moving home.
I met my fiancé when i started school at a university in my state and she (Valerie) was excited about this. There was no cheating involved, I have been in a happily committed relationship for close to two years and we are planning a wedding for a few months from now.
Also, just to make this clear my fiancé knows her but they have never met in person. I tell her a lot about my fiance and details about marriage plans, and i also talk to my fiance about Valerie.
In the time ive known her, Valerie has been on again off again with several guys but tells me everything, familial issues, problems with boyfriends etc. A few months ago she confessed that she got pregnant with her then ex boyfriend, and I’ve suppprted her throughout, as she prepares to be a mother. She has also m
From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why opinions are all over the place Hard to say where this lands long term.
From the outside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where the disagreement starts At least from my perspective.
If you zoom out, the timing matters more than people admit Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term.
the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why this is getting picked apart This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next.
If we’re being honest, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split
At first glance, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
Looking at this, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Looking at this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the impression it gives me.
Just reading this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled
At first glance, this feels more about execution than intent
Looking at this, the follow-through is what will decide this which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.
Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.
From the outside, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.
From a neutral view, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.
Looking at this, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here.
Real talk, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why opinions are all over the place
At this point, this depends heavily on what happens next Interested to see the follow-up.
Not gonna lie, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split
From a neutral view, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that tension shows up immediately We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.
Bluntly speaking, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back Hard to say where this lands long term.
If we’re being honest, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
Trying to be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through so the response doesn’t surprise me
From where I sit, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here.
At this point, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up.
From where I sit, this feels more about execution than intent and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.
If you zoom out, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that friction is hard to ignore At least from my perspective.
the timing matters more than people admit That’s just my read on it.
Stepping back, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
If you zoom out, the way this is presented changes how it lands Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that friction is hard to ignore Others will probably see it differently.
Looking at this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
To be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this That part stands out. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.
Putting bias aside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.
From my side, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what changes the context. That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s the impression it gives me.
From my side, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why the comments look the way they do
From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s just my read on it.
Just reading this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Curious how this plays out.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Others will probably see it differently.
the way this is presented changes how it lands so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the impression it gives me.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Not convinced this is settled yet.
From my side, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context.
If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which explains why reactions are split Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.
Bluntly speaking, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.
Stepping back, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which turns this into more of a debate
On the surface, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here. Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.
Putting bias aside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Without overthinking it, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so
Without overthinking it, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split
Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where the disagreement starts
Without overthinking it, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do At least from my perspective.
From a neutral view, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term.
At first glance, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the impression it gives me.