My friends are starting to ignore me, what’s should i do?
This is on a throwaway account so hopefully the don’t find me lol
I 16M am apart of a friend group of 5 guys (including me) that are ranging 15M-16M, and they all go to my school, however there have been some troubles recently that I need some advice on.
So what happened was around Christmas time i was somewhat distant, i was seeing family and my Girlfriend from the 24th-29th December time. Then my friends got upset because during that time i didn’t call (I tried to explain to them that i was seeing family, however they disregarded that). So we ended up in argument where i ended up apologised for ignoring them and decided to make an effort to call more.
Since that point, it was all smooth, i took everything they said into account. I called, i explained why i was unable to join the days i couldn’t join, and was generally being a better friend and i thought it was all going smoothly.
However today i found out they were all online on steam playing together (therefore obvious to me they were also calling), therefore ignoring me. So this was about 5:30PM, where i took a screenshot of them all playing. So i think, quite righteously i was offended and didn’t call, because they were being
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Not gonna lie, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which is why this is getting picked apart That’s just how it reads to me.
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Trying to be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
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