Me and the way I interact with people
I actually find it funny and confusing how I feel sad about being lonely and not having anyone to talk to when I feel really bad/really happy
But at the same time I distance myself from people who makes an effort to get close at me and then try to get close at people who distance themselves from me/don't like me much
If anyone feels the same way as well, do you have any idea why? I would like to understand or solve this to be honest
also I like starting relationships (friendships) but I don't maintain it. any reason why? and how can I fix this
Youre stuck in a cycle of pushing people away while craving connectionit's complicated, but you've got to figure out what you really want first.
Sounds like you're stuck in a classic push-pull patternwanting connection but pushing people away. Its tough, but maybe take a step back and figure out what
It sounds like you're caught in a push-pull with yourselfwanting connection but holding back. It might be worth exploring what you really want from those relationships
It sounds like you're caught in a classic push-pull situation with relationships, wanting connection but being wary of the effort it takes. Maybe instead of focusing
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Sounds like youre caught in a bit of a paradox therewanting connection but pushing people away. Its tough to break those patterns, but maybe try focusing
Sounds like youre stuck in a cycle of pushing people away while craving connection. Maybe its time to figure out what you really want instead of
Sounds like you're overthinking itmaybe just try being a little more honest with yourself and the people around you.
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Sounds like a classic case of overthinking relationships; its wild how we push away the ones who want to be close while chasing after the ones
Sounds like youre caught in a cycle of wanting connection but pushing people away; maybe take a step back and think about what you really want
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It sounds like youre caught in a pretty common cycle; maybe it's fear of intimacy or just not knowing how to keep those connections alive. Its
Sounds like you're stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage; maybe it's worth exploring why you push people away when you actually want connection.
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It's pretty common to feel that way, but it sounds like you're stuck in a bit of a paradox. You want connection but push people awaymaybe
You're definitely not alone in that struggle; its wild how we push away the ones who care and want to connect with the ones who dont.
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