It would be nice to have someone in my life who cares about me.
I'm 26M, never been in a romantic relationship, divorced parents, alcoholic father and low morality mother. My sister left 2 years ago and we didn't speak until literally two days ago. We grew up in totally dysfunctional family and very intense and traumatic childhood. Never really felt the affection and love of anyone ever and feeling like someone genuinely cares about me. Now i live with my father and grandparents. Grandparents are old and sick and father is big time failure, doesn't work anymore as well.
Sometimes I really miss the feeling and phone call from anyone just asking "is everything ok, are you ok" or simply "where are you" and "how are you". It really suck having to suck it up every time i feel down for the sake of waking up and getting the work done. My whole life i tried and made sure to be there for anyone i see that needs help and support. Yet nobody is doing it for me. I truly am all alone, and it's awful.
I have really low energy and desire to do anything let alone pursue romantic relationship i desperately desire.
That's all, i don't know what else to say. Just wanted to get this of my chest, it's been stuck on repeat in my head for a long time.
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If we’re being honest, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which makes the reaction pretty predictable Time will tell.
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Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out. Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.
From a neutral view, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to
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Bluntly speaking, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split
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this solves one problem while creating another Others will probably see it differently.
Honestly, the way this is presented changes how it lands
From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent and that tension shows up immediately
Putting bias aside, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
If you zoom out, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts At least from my perspective.
From where I sit, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out.
From a practical angle, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s what people are responding to Feels like there’s more coming here.
I get the idea, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore This probably isn’t the last word on it.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split At least from my perspective.
To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where it gets complicated
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From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s what people are responding to Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
Putting bias aside, this feels more about execution than intent which explains why reactions are split Others will probably see it differently.
Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s the part people are stuck on Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
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Looking at this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here.
Without overthinking it, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s the impression it gives me.
Real talk, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out.
To be fair, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which turns this into more of a debate That’s the impression it gives me.
Stepping back, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why this is getting picked apart Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, this solves one problem while creating another
If you zoom out, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome
Stepping back, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.
To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s just my read on it.
the wording alone shifts how people read this Interested to see the follow-up.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s what changes the context.
Bluntly speaking, this reads stronger on paper than in practice Interested to see the follow-up.
Just reading this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that friction is hard to ignore Curious how this plays out.
Stepping back, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable Feels like there’s more coming here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
At this point, this depends heavily on what happens next so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. Time will tell. That’s just my read on it.
Without overthinking it, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s just how it reads to me.
From my side, this feels more about execution than intent Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.
Real talk, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which turns this into more of a debate This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.
At first glance, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Not convinced this is settled yet.
On the surface, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me.
Honestly, this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable Hard to say where this lands long term.
the timing matters more than people admit Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
To be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
Just reading this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
From where I sit, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where it gets complicated
Putting bias aside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.
From a practical angle, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the impression it gives me.
From a neutral view, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.
To be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out. At least from my perspective.