Marica Weil

Is it normal to not miss people?

I've had a good and loving childhood. I love my family. But I don't miss them at all when I don't see them for a long time. I don't even really think about them.
Same goes for essentially all my friends, except a very select few. But even when I miss one of those three, I don't continuously.
Same for partners when I used to date. Tbf, I'm aro. When I move to new areas, I usually lose contact with my friends, and am fine with it. And when pets die, I am sad and hollow, but only shortly.
Otherwise, I do genuinly care a lot about these people. And I have more healthy relationships than ever, due to maturing, but I still feel about the same.
Is this a me issue, or is this a general experience?

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Sebastián Cruz
Sebastián Cruz
@smallostrich140645 · Jan 12, 2026 9:00 am

the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out.

Uwe Henry
Uwe Henry
@yellowelephant513296 · Jan 12, 2026 7:51 am

I get the idea, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here.

Christoffer Madsen
Christoffer Madsen
@happyfish386658 · Jan 12, 2026 7:44 am

Not gonna lie, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time.

Ceyhun Oraloğlu
Ceyhun Oraloğlu
@redtiger465744 · Jan 12, 2026 7:38 am

Without overthinking it, this feels more about execution than intent That’s the key detail here.

Léonie Francois
Léonie Francois
@greenduck543551 · Jan 12, 2026 7:36 am

Stepping back, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Brittany Reyes
Brittany Reyes
@greengorilla230197 · Jan 12, 2026 7:34 am

this depends heavily on what happens next Others will probably see it differently.

Vidyalaxmi Naik
Vidyalaxmi Naik
@sadgoose901926 · Jan 12, 2026 7:34 am

this comes across more reactive than planned which is why this is getting picked apart Let’s see what happens next.

Gerolf Philipps
Gerolf Philipps
@sadzebra758839 · Jan 12, 2026 7:34 am

From the outside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Interested to see the follow-up.

Dharun Shayana
Dharun Shayana
@silverduck758813 · Jan 12, 2026 7:33 am

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next.

Paul Fleury
Paul Fleury
@bluefrog203874 · Jan 12, 2026 7:33 am

Real talk, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore Feels like there’s more coming here.

Marinko Cvetković
Marinko Cvetković
@tinyfish288655 · Jan 12, 2026 7:33 am

From where I sit, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting.

Vilma Jokinen
Vilma Jokinen
@sadladybug895855 · Jan 12, 2026 7:33 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.

Stefan Cornelius
Stefan Cornelius
@sadleopard838883 · Jan 12, 2026 7:33 am

Trying to be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Faustine Robin
Faustine Robin
@blacklion427263 · Jan 12, 2026 7:33 am

Putting bias aside, the follow-through is what will decide this Time will tell. At least from my perspective.

Helena Picard
Helena Picard
@saddog769187 · Jan 12, 2026 7:33 am

the follow-through is what will decide this so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.

Mónica Pascual
Mónica Pascual
@orangegoose626357 · Jan 12, 2026 7:33 am

From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent

Luz Serrano
Luz Serrano
@organicfish966252 · Jan 12, 2026 7:32 am

Real talk, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Alexandre Morin
Alexandre Morin
@greenmeercat608824 · Jan 12, 2026 7:31 am

From my side, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s the part people are stuck on

Kelya Sanchez
Kelya Sanchez
@sadgoose330298 · Jan 12, 2026 7:31 am

From the outside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on

Elena Delgado
Elena Delgado
@tinymouse108469 · Jan 12, 2026 7:31 am

I get the idea, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.

Johanne Madsen
Johanne Madsen
@orangepanda790298 · Jan 12, 2026 7:31 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this Not convinced this is settled yet.

Klaus-Werner Ihle
Klaus-Werner Ihle
@purpleduck431702 · Jan 12, 2026 7:31 am

If we’re being honest, this feels more about execution than intent That’s just how it reads to me.

Noam Lemoine
Noam Lemoine
@bigduck375171 · Jan 12, 2026 7:30 am

Stepping back, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Others will probably see it differently.

Emre Erdoğan
Emre Erdoğan
@happywolf874738 · Jan 12, 2026 7:30 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.

Tanika Ferwerda
Tanika Ferwerda
@bluebutterfly361159 · Jan 12, 2026 7:30 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Milena Rakić
Milena Rakić
@tinykoala994759 · Jan 12, 2026 7:30 am

At this point, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Aaron Lucas
Aaron Lucas
@happyfrog655185 · Jan 12, 2026 7:29 am

Putting bias aside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Time will tell.

Marius Johansen
Marius Johansen
@tinylion345499 · Jan 12, 2026 7:29 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Naser Lopez
Naser Lopez
@redfrog539330 · Jan 12, 2026 7:29 am

this solves one problem while creating another Let’s see what happens next.

Magarete Schmied
Magarete Schmied
@beautifullion158763 · Jan 12, 2026 7:29 am

From my side, the way this is presented changes how it lands so the response doesn’t surprise me This probably isn’t the last word on it.

پرهام گلشن
پرهام گلشن
@lazyzebra509976 · Jan 12, 2026 7:29 am

Real talk, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context. Interested to see the follow-up.

Tom Soto
Tom Soto
@greenbird970990 · Jan 12, 2026 7:28 am

Bluntly speaking, this feels like a half-step, not a full move

Daniel Thompson
Daniel Thompson
@greenladybug668591 · Jan 12, 2026 7:28 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where people will push back Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.

Kerim Öztürk
Kerim Öztürk
@happyfrog560599 · Jan 12, 2026 7:28 am

Trying to be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just my read on it.

Dolores Perry
Dolores Perry
@angryfish149152 · Jan 12, 2026 7:28 am

Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.

Kalina Cimbal
Kalina Cimbal
@heavytiger660910 · Jan 12, 2026 7:28 am

At this point, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split At least from my perspective.

Nayana Padmanabha
Nayana Padmanabha
@orangeladybug660998 · Jan 12, 2026 7:27 am

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.

Louis Austin
Louis Austin
@blackpanda351476 · Jan 12, 2026 7:27 am

Putting bias aside, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just how it reads to me.

Marcos Freitas
Marcos Freitas
@purpleleopard484692 · Jan 12, 2026 7:27 am

Just reading this, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.

Belén Ruiz
Belén Ruiz
@goldenrabbit569572 · Jan 12, 2026 7:27 am

Honestly, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context.

Jonas Leclercq
Jonas Leclercq
@purpletiger234572 · Jan 12, 2026 7:27 am

I get the idea, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Ljubica Kralj
Ljubica Kralj
@happyleopard710546 · Jan 12, 2026 7:27 am

To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent which explains why reactions are split Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Sophia Stenvik
Sophia Stenvik
@bluegorilla939420 · Jan 12, 2026 7:27 am

On the surface, this feels more about execution than intent

Jasmina Pantelić
Jasmina Pantelić
@blackelephant884738 · Jan 12, 2026 7:27 am

this comes across more reactive than planned which explains why reactions are split Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Oscar Petersen
Oscar Petersen
@yellowsnake441555 · Jan 12, 2026 7:26 am

this feels rushed rather than thought through

Azariy Ignatenko
Azariy Ignatenko
@orangerabbit191494 · Jan 12, 2026 7:26 am

Putting bias aside, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.

Charlotte Dupont
Charlotte Dupont
@beautifulfrog993576 · Jan 12, 2026 7:26 am

Looking at this, this feels more about execution than intent Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.

Tim Davis
Tim Davis
@angrydog387757 · Jan 12, 2026 7:26 am

Trying to be fair, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Feels like there’s more coming here.

Dylan Dupuis
Dylan Dupuis
@tinylion634144 · Jan 12, 2026 7:25 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands That part stands out. Time will tell.

احسان زارعی
احسان زارعی
@lazysnake988417 · Jan 12, 2026 7:25 am

Stepping back, the timing matters more than people admit so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here. Time will tell.

Erin Mccoy
Erin Mccoy
@redostrich704649 · Jan 12, 2026 7:25 am

From a practical angle, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.

Navami Moolya
Navami Moolya
@bigbutterfly549508 · Jan 12, 2026 7:25 am

If you zoom out, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore At least from my perspective.

Francisco Garza
Francisco Garza
@heavydog892364 · Jan 12, 2026 7:25 am

From a practical angle, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where it gets complicated

Abdul da Cunha
Abdul da Cunha
@silverpanda282411 · Jan 12, 2026 7:25 am

Real talk, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Radoslav Glavaš
Radoslav Glavaš
@silverrabbit889140 · Jan 12, 2026 7:25 am

Honestly, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out.

Elizabeth Diaz
Elizabeth Diaz
@silverpeacock357714 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

If you zoom out, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately Hard to say where this lands long term.

Arlo Brown
Arlo Brown
@sadkoala424584 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this which turns this into more of a debate That’s just my read on it.

Ananya Bansal
Ananya Bansal
@organicmouse158875 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Aguinaldo Silveira
Aguinaldo Silveira
@bigwolf169952 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

this comes across more reactive than planned which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Astrid Jensen
Astrid Jensen
@purplefrog682210 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

At this point, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where people will push back That’s just my read on it.

Iris Tyldum
Iris Tyldum
@angryladybug747518 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

From my side, the timing matters more than people admit and that tension shows up immediately Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.

Silke Pedersen
Silke Pedersen
@bluebutterfly933136 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

I get the idea, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why this is getting picked apart

Koray Gönültaş
Koray Gönültaş
@blackleopard442430 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context.

تینا كامياران
تینا كامياران
@beautifulfrog249551 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

From my side, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore

Noemí Lugo
Noemí Lugo
@whitetiger251341 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

Just reading this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That part stands out.

Uriel Ocasio
Uriel Ocasio
@heavywolf360755 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where it gets complicated At least from my perspective.

Pinja Tikkanen
Pinja Tikkanen
@whitefish979958 · Jan 12, 2026 7:24 am

Not gonna lie, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which turns this into more of a debate

Begüm Duygulu
Begüm Duygulu
@tinypeacock727911 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where it gets complicated This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

Juho Waisanen
Juho Waisanen
@angrypanda303754 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Gabrielle Walker
Gabrielle Walker
@crazysnake894354 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

Just reading this, the timing matters more than people admit Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Stella Morel
Stella Morel
@lazycat857475 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

At first glance, this depends heavily on what happens next so the response doesn’t surprise me

Minna Landgraf
Minna Landgraf
@heavypeacock753891 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.

Jacob Sirko
Jacob Sirko
@goldencat853382 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

If we’re being honest, the wording alone shifts how people read this which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Finn King
Finn King
@blackswan932529 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated

هلیا رضایی
هلیا رضایی
@smallpanda323922 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

Looking at this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just how it reads to me.

Svobodan Haruk
Svobodan Haruk
@ticklishrabbit759188 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

From a neutral view, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which explains why reactions are split Curious how this plays out.

Meinhard Zell
Meinhard Zell
@tinysnake864956 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

From where I sit, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Charlotte Richards
Charlotte Richards
@goldenwolf653728 · Jan 12, 2026 7:23 am

At first glance, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just how it reads to me.

Arndt Hartmann
Arndt Hartmann
@blackfrog391508 · Jan 12, 2026 7:22 am

On the surface, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s the key detail here.

Constantin Horst
Constantin Horst
@purplebear416327 · Jan 12, 2026 7:22 am

Not gonna lie, the timing matters more than people admit That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.

Gail James
Gail James
@heavybear650658 · Jan 12, 2026 7:22 am

Without overthinking it, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified

Noelia Herrera
Noelia Herrera
@orangeduck139317 · Jan 12, 2026 7:22 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the impression it gives me.

Tobias Christiansen
Tobias Christiansen
@greenzebra544861 · Jan 12, 2026 7:22 am

this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet.

Sophie Watkins
Sophie Watkins
@beautifulfrog591888 · Jan 12, 2026 7:21 am

Honestly, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.

Magdalena Paredes
Magdalena Paredes
@smalllion534955 · Jan 12, 2026 7:21 am

At first glance, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Sean Jimenez
Sean Jimenez
@yellowbear786159 · Jan 12, 2026 7:21 am

Real talk, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.

Mónica Pascual
Mónica Pascual
@orangegoose626357 · Jan 12, 2026 7:20 am

I get the idea, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why this is getting picked apart

Sanni Arola
Sanni Arola
@greenswan421176 · Jan 12, 2026 7:20 am

Stepping back, the timing matters more than people admit which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me.

Marc Perry
Marc Perry
@greenleopard659637 · Jan 12, 2026 7:20 am

Looking at this, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s what changes the context. That’s the impression it gives me.

Radomir Ilinskiy
Radomir Ilinskiy
@lazyfish219198 · Jan 12, 2026 7:20 am

On the surface, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

Nevaeh Roberts
Nevaeh Roberts Verified
@whitebear625720 · Jan 12, 2026 7:20 am

this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Elóides Cavalcanti
Elóides Cavalcanti
@redleopard256393 · Jan 12, 2026 7:20 am

To be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting.

Borka Živadinović
Borka Živadinović
@purplelion879577 · Jan 12, 2026 7:19 am

If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Stephanie Mitchell
Stephanie Mitchell
@angrysnake525404 · Jan 12, 2026 7:19 am

At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Isabella Rasmussen
Isabella Rasmussen
@angryrabbit180962 · Jan 12, 2026 7:19 am

From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Mihajlo Peković
Mihajlo Peković
@tinygoose911989 · Jan 12, 2026 7:19 am

From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Mayte Lugo
Mayte Lugo
@blackbird360427 · Jan 12, 2026 7:19 am

this comes across more reactive than planned That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.

Oliver Morris
Oliver Morris
@whitegorilla388357 · Jan 12, 2026 7:19 am

Real talk, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage

Diego Carpentier
Diego Carpentier
@ticklishsnake273824 · Jan 12, 2026 7:18 am

If you zoom out, the follow-through is what will decide this That part stands out. Time will tell.

Yasemin Toraman
Yasemin Toraman
@whitegorilla267316 · Jan 12, 2026 7:18 am

At this point, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Slobodan Mančić
Slobodan Mančić
@redfish462622 · Jan 12, 2026 7:18 am

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.

Allan Simmons
Allan Simmons
@blacklion900609 · Jan 12, 2026 7:18 am

Not gonna lie, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Paige Knight
Paige Knight
@greenwolf119621 · Jan 12, 2026 7:18 am

Just reading this, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out.

Marcia Garrett
Marcia Garrett
@crazylion542529 · Jan 12, 2026 7:18 am

I get the idea, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Interested to see the follow-up.

Guillaume Leclerc
Guillaume Leclerc
@greenkoala707207 · Jan 12, 2026 7:18 am

Putting bias aside, this feels rushed rather than thought through which explains why reactions are split That’s just how it reads to me.

Marius Johansen
Marius Johansen
@tinylion345499 · Jan 12, 2026 7:18 am

Putting bias aside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out.

Kalina Pidruchniy
Kalina Pidruchniy
@purpleostrich133286 · Jan 12, 2026 7:17 am

Just reading this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Gaetano Lemaire
Gaetano Lemaire
@ticklishbear118861 · Jan 12, 2026 7:17 am

this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s what people are responding to

Carolyn Hamilton
Carolyn Hamilton
@goldenlion162381 · Jan 12, 2026 7:17 am

Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Maëlle Roche
Maëlle Roche
@heavygoose141342 · Jan 12, 2026 7:17 am

Just reading this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate Hard to say where this lands long term.

Brativoy Kalchenko
Brativoy Kalchenko
@tinymouse733792 · Jan 12, 2026 7:16 am

Looking at this, the follow-through is what will decide this Time will tell.

Xavier Crespo
Xavier Crespo
@happybutterfly709476 · Jan 12, 2026 7:16 am

At first glance, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.

Osemrit Boykiv
Osemrit Boykiv
@smalldog329187 · Jan 12, 2026 7:16 am

Bluntly speaking, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Olivia Wallo
Olivia Wallo
@greenleopard910821 · Jan 12, 2026 7:15 am

Putting bias aside, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s what people are responding to Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Predislav Stefaniv
Predislav Stefaniv
@brownzebra886166 · Jan 12, 2026 7:15 am

From a neutral view, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just how it reads to me.