Tammy Franklin

I turned 25 today and needed somewhere to talk

Sometimes it feels like life started without you.
Everyone is moving forward and you’re standing still.
People talk about achievements, relationships, milestones.
You smile and nod but inside you feel late.
Late to success, late to love, late to becoming someone.
You try not to compare but it’s everywhere.
Birthdays feel heavier than they should.
Today is my birthday I turned 25.
And instead of celebrating, I felt the need to talk.
I didn’t know who to talk to.
So I made a Reddit account just to say this out loud.
Time keeps asking questions I don’t have answers for.
I wonder if I missed my chance or took the wrong road.
The truth is maybe I didn’t fail I just took longer.
Not everyone arrives at the same time.
Some paths are slower because they’re harder.
Being late doesn’t mean I’m lost.
It just means my story isn’t finished yet.

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Koray Gönültaş
Koray Gönültaş
@blackleopard442430 · Jan 12, 2026 11:13 am

this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.

Indie Clarke
Indie Clarke
@bluebear777741 · Jan 12, 2026 11:11 am

Trying to be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where the disagreement starts This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Jake Jones
Jake Jones
@redladybug737238 · Jan 12, 2026 11:11 am

At this point, this feels like a half-step, not a full move

Holger Oltmanns
Holger Oltmanns
@brownpeacock394626 · Jan 12, 2026 11:07 am

Just reading this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s just my read on it.

Jackson Anderson
Jackson Anderson
@ticklishwolf217949 · Jan 12, 2026 10:31 am

Trying to be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next.

Emilie Jensen
Emilie Jensen
@brownbear864764 · Jan 12, 2026 10:28 am

I get the idea, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts

مهراد نجاتی
مهراد نجاتی
@yellowfrog252900 · Jan 12, 2026 10:28 am

At first glance, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just my read on it.

Deodato Souza
Deodato Souza
@blackleopard872995 · Jan 12, 2026 10:23 am

Looking at this, this feels more about execution than intent which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.

Oskari Ranta
Oskari Ranta
@smallkoala968838 · Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that tension shows up immediately That’s the impression it gives me.

دانیال حیدری
دانیال حیدری
@angrymeercat304115 · Jan 12, 2026 10:04 am

Real talk, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out.

Kalpit Andrade
Kalpit Andrade
@orangepeacock827564 · Jan 12, 2026 10:04 am

At first glance, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.

Roberta Riley
Roberta Riley
@whitebutterfly178835 · Jan 12, 2026 10:04 am

Without overthinking it, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.

Olivia Edwards
Olivia Edwards
@bigcat173553 · Jan 12, 2026 10:04 am

this solves one problem while creating another which turns this into more of a debate

Emilie Jensen
Emilie Jensen
@brownbear864764 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Olivia Wallo
Olivia Wallo
@greenleopard910821 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

Just reading this, this comes across more reactive than planned Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.

Ülkü Karaböcek
Ülkü Karaböcek
@purpleladybug721727 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Kaylee Vargas
Kaylee Vargas
@sadbird937100 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Sigmund Samdal
Sigmund Samdal
@lazyladybug836636 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why opinions are all over the place Let’s see what happens next.

Sijgje Dudok
Sijgje Dudok
@sadswan587112 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

From where I sit, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.

Alicia Olivier
Alicia Olivier
@whitebutterfly348960 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

Without overthinking it, this feels rushed rather than thought through

Oya Gürmen
Oya Gürmen
@angryleopard933634 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

If we’re being honest, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Katie Schmidt
Katie Schmidt
@organicmouse129445 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.

Tiffany Soto
Tiffany Soto
@greenswan410455 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

From the outside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.

Fedora Danchuk
Fedora Danchuk
@redmeercat476796 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out.

Massimo Fleckenstein
Massimo Fleckenstein
@yellowelephant616574 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Arantxa Prenger
Arantxa Prenger
@bluebutterfly901123 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

Not gonna lie, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts At least from my perspective.

Porfirio Maestas
Porfirio Maestas
@bluerabbit493966 · Jan 12, 2026 10:01 am

From my side, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s what changes the context.

Lorena Rodríguez
Lorena Rodríguez
@bluekoala324699 · Jan 12, 2026 10:01 am

Trying to be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s the part people are stuck on

Sara Sakala
Sara Sakala
@bluegorilla760882 · Jan 12, 2026 10:01 am

Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where people will push back Interested to see the follow-up.

Maximino Ribeiro
Maximino Ribeiro
@whitetiger763773 · Jan 12, 2026 10:01 am

Trying to be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s just my read on it.

Aguinaldo Silveira
Aguinaldo Silveira
@bigwolf169952 · Jan 12, 2026 10:00 am

Stepping back, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable Time will tell.

Xavier Park
Xavier Park
@blackrabbit592415 · Jan 12, 2026 10:00 am

Real talk, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Gerfried Rapp
Gerfried Rapp
@greenbird462883 · Jan 12, 2026 9:59 am

the follow-through is what will decide this which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out. Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.

Gerben De Poel
Gerben De Poel
@blueleopard139217 · Jan 12, 2026 9:59 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.

Tyra Gijsen
Tyra Gijsen
@greenelephant290369 · Jan 12, 2026 9:59 am

this feels more about execution than intent which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out.

Ayan Ruiterkamp
Ayan Ruiterkamp
@heavygorilla480509 · Jan 12, 2026 9:59 am

From my side, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone At least from my perspective.

Leila Faure
Leila Faure
@sadwolf533447 · Jan 12, 2026 9:58 am

From where I sit, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why this is getting picked apart

Wendolin Rodríquez
Wendolin Rodríquez
@redmeercat121810 · Jan 12, 2026 9:58 am

Trying to be fair, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the impression it gives me.

Mestan Akar
Mestan Akar
@lazyfish757527 · Jan 12, 2026 9:58 am

Just reading this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice

Prathiksha Das
Prathiksha Das
@goldenleopard562927 · Jan 12, 2026 9:58 am

From a practical angle, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Florian Niemann
Florian Niemann
@lazytiger710148 · Jan 12, 2026 9:58 am

If we’re being honest, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Josefa Delgado
Josefa Delgado
@brownladybug396127 · Jan 12, 2026 9:58 am

Stepping back, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts Not convinced this is settled yet.

Ömür Özkara
Ömür Özkara
@smallleopard360419 · Jan 12, 2026 9:57 am

If you zoom out, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why this is getting picked apart This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Nico Kriegel
Nico Kriegel
@heavysnake529645 · Jan 12, 2026 9:57 am

From where I sit, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.

Rachel Sims
Rachel Sims
@crazycat217227 · Jan 12, 2026 9:57 am

At this point, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.

Ramses Téllez
Ramses Téllez
@happygorilla441283 · Jan 12, 2026 9:57 am

this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.

Océane Guerin
Océane Guerin
@beautifulzebra912483 · Jan 12, 2026 9:57 am

Just reading this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Others will probably see it differently.

Seraina Gautier
Seraina Gautier
@brownpeacock178324 · Jan 12, 2026 9:57 am

At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what makes this interesting.

Óscar Camacho
Óscar Camacho
@goldenpanda153207 · Jan 12, 2026 9:56 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Terry Collins
Terry Collins
@bigladybug327971 · Jan 12, 2026 9:56 am

Stepping back, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back Not convinced this is settled yet.

Tjeerd Overwater
Tjeerd Overwater
@crazyladybug671352 · Jan 12, 2026 9:56 am

Bluntly speaking, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Benedikt Carpentier
Benedikt Carpentier
@greenrabbit422151 · Jan 12, 2026 9:56 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that tension shows up immediately

Cory Larson
Cory Larson
@happypanda860864 · Jan 12, 2026 9:56 am

If we’re being honest, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here.

Danica Radović
Danica Radović
@brownfish118907 · Jan 12, 2026 9:56 am

On the surface, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.

Nevaeh Roberts
Nevaeh Roberts Verified
@whitebear625720 · Jan 12, 2026 9:56 am

At first glance, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting.

آنیتا جعفری
آنیتا جعفری
@bluelion426398 · Jan 12, 2026 9:55 am

Just reading this, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Dejalme Martins
Dejalme Martins
@purplezebra342597 · Jan 12, 2026 9:55 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice which explains why reactions are split That’s just my read on it.

Devashree Bangera
Devashree Bangera
@tinykoala871298 · Jan 12, 2026 9:55 am

At first glance, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Nurdan Yalçın
Nurdan Yalçın
@bluefish842446 · Jan 12, 2026 9:55 am

Not gonna lie, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.

Johanne Madsen
Johanne Madsen
@orangepanda790298 · Jan 12, 2026 9:55 am

At first glance, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that friction is hard to ignore

Elóides Cavalcanti
Elóides Cavalcanti
@redleopard256393 · Jan 12, 2026 9:55 am

If we’re being honest, the follow-through is what will decide this which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.

Dragoje Stanojević
Dragoje Stanojević
@organicswan977222 · Jan 12, 2026 9:54 am

If we’re being honest, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.

Yunnuel Guerrero
Yunnuel Guerrero
@lazyrabbit937873 · Jan 12, 2026 9:54 am

Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit Feels like there’s more coming here.

Carter Sullivan
Carter Sullivan
@beautifultiger398806 · Jan 12, 2026 9:54 am

Bluntly speaking, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which turns this into more of a debate

Janou Leppink
Janou Leppink
@organicgorilla569862 · Jan 12, 2026 9:54 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what makes this interesting. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Shobha Patil
Shobha Patil
@whitedog621739 · Jan 12, 2026 9:53 am

this feels rushed rather than thought through

Francisco Soler
Francisco Soler
@whitegorilla440601 · Jan 12, 2026 9:50 am

Without overthinking it, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Charlotte Moulin
Charlotte Moulin
@sadelephant171271 · Jan 12, 2026 9:50 am

From a practical angle, the follow-through is what will decide this Time will tell.

Juho Waisanen
Juho Waisanen
@angrypanda303754 · Jan 12, 2026 9:47 am

Looking at this, this solves one problem while creating another which is why this is getting picked apart Feels like there’s more coming here.

Othmar Prill
Othmar Prill
@smallmeercat161790 · Jan 12, 2026 9:43 am

At first glance, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.

Vilhelm Nesheim
Vilhelm Nesheim
@orangemouse511157 · Jan 12, 2026 9:43 am

Without overthinking it, this comes across more reactive than planned At least from my perspective.

Willard Russell
Willard Russell
@blackmeercat220250 · Jan 12, 2026 9:43 am

To be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Osmar da Rocha
Osmar da Rocha
@goldenrabbit997350 · Jan 12, 2026 9:42 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so Time will tell. At least from my perspective.

Josip Morin
Josip Morin
@greenlion148573 · Jan 12, 2026 9:42 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s the part people are stuck on

Ayşe Yıldırım
Ayşe Yıldırım
@bigduck654267 · Jan 12, 2026 9:42 am

I get the idea, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Michelle Campbell
Michelle Campbell
@redmeercat952629 · Jan 12, 2026 9:42 am

Stepping back, this comes across more reactive than planned and that tension shows up immediately Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Bella Odaynik
Bella Odaynik
@smallbutterfly117419 · Jan 12, 2026 9:42 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which turns this into more of a debate That’s just my read on it.

Rosemarie Roy
Rosemarie Roy
@bluebutterfly378746 · Jan 12, 2026 9:41 am

I get the idea, this comes across more reactive than planned and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.

Pedro Moreno
Pedro Moreno
@ticklishduck243463 · Jan 12, 2026 9:41 am

Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why this is getting picked apart Others will probably see it differently.

Karine Dubois
Karine Dubois
@whitekoala722276 · Jan 12, 2026 9:41 am

this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just how it reads to me.

Shari Gregoire
Shari Gregoire
@brownleopard643145 · Jan 12, 2026 9:41 am

this comes across more reactive than planned That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Carolyn Hamilton
Carolyn Hamilton
@goldenlion162381 · Jan 12, 2026 9:41 am

this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.

Cory Harvey
Cory Harvey
@goldenkoala454640 · Jan 12, 2026 9:41 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context.

Alessio Roux
Alessio Roux
@brownleopard801579 · Jan 12, 2026 9:41 am

Stepping back, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why the comments look the way they do This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

سوگند سلطانی نژاد
سوگند سلطانی نژاد
@purplemeercat906173 · Jan 12, 2026 9:40 am

At first glance, this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Harmanna Koert
Harmanna Koert
@bigbear432596 · Jan 12, 2026 9:40 am

this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.

Fatma Koçoğlu
Fatma Koçoğlu
@heavygorilla413522 · Jan 12, 2026 9:40 am

this comes across more reactive than planned That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.

Polda Freitas
Polda Freitas
@greenladybug875197 · Jan 12, 2026 9:40 am

If you zoom out, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what changes the context.

Eemil Huotari
Eemil Huotari
@tinybutterfly826258 · Jan 12, 2026 9:40 am

From a practical angle, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.

Bogdana Gricina
Bogdana Gricina
@whitesnake901329 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands so the response doesn’t surprise me Curious how this plays out.

Kairav Bal
Kairav Bal
@sadladybug638953 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome

Kübra Akışık
Kübra Akışık
@angrywolf229625 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

Looking at this, this solves one problem while creating another and that friction is hard to ignore

Jade Taylor
Jade Taylor
@bigpeacock943588 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

this depends heavily on what happens next Time will tell. At least from my perspective.

Ella White
Ella White
@goldenelephant998323 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

Stepping back, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.

Adriana Esteban
Adriana Esteban
@happygoose983645 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

On the surface, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Emma Green
Emma Green
@organicsnake907643 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

If we’re being honest, the direction makes sense but the details are messy so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.

Janet Wagner
Janet Wagner
@brownmeercat750328 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

At this point, this solves one problem while creating another so the response doesn’t surprise me Feels like there’s more coming here.

Eleazar Rodrigues
Eleazar Rodrigues
@crazybutterfly884135 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Ülkü Karaböcek
Ülkü Karaböcek
@purpleladybug721727 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

To be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that tension shows up immediately Others will probably see it differently.

Gökhan Abacı
Gökhan Abacı
@whiterabbit869959 · Jan 12, 2026 9:39 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why this is getting picked apart That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.

Louis Singh
Louis Singh
@sadkoala213774 · Jan 12, 2026 9:38 am

To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.

Svetlana Durand
Svetlana Durand
@smallostrich960201 · Jan 12, 2026 9:38 am

Just reading this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.

Lea Nielsen
Lea Nielsen
@smallgorilla715445 · Jan 12, 2026 9:38 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this

Oscar Petersen
Oscar Petersen
@yellowsnake441555 · Jan 12, 2026 9:38 am

Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Hard to say where this lands long term.

Parcidio da Conceição
Parcidio da Conceição
@orangeladybug318270 · Jan 12, 2026 9:38 am

On the surface, this feels more about execution than intent Feels like there’s more coming here.

Vivian Refvik
Vivian Refvik
@lazyostrich855652 · Jan 12, 2026 9:37 am

this feels more about execution than intent which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.

Ananya Bansal
Ananya Bansal
@organicmouse158875 · Jan 12, 2026 9:37 am

On the surface, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why this is getting picked apart

Maria Fuller
Maria Fuller
@bigkoala514913 · Jan 12, 2026 9:37 am

From the outside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that tension shows up immediately This could age very differently in a week.

Diana Horton
Diana Horton
@tinycat596229 · Jan 12, 2026 9:37 am

Honestly, the wording alone shifts how people read this Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Prebislav Haritonenko
Prebislav Haritonenko
@lazybird560843 · Jan 12, 2026 9:36 am

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just how it reads to me.

Amelia Li
Amelia Li
@brownostrich101806 · Jan 12, 2026 9:36 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split That part stands out. Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.

Ostromova Stashkevichi
Ostromova Stashkevichi
@organicfish951529 · Jan 12, 2026 9:36 am

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.

Tomas Romero
Tomas Romero
@smallfrog480182 · Jan 12, 2026 9:36 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.

Jerome Hunter
Jerome Hunter
@tinygoose985873 · Jan 12, 2026 9:36 am

Looking at this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy

عرشيا زارعی
عرشيا زارعی
@silverduck169191 · Jan 12, 2026 9:36 am

Trying to be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.

Begüm Duygulu
Begüm Duygulu
@tinypeacock727911 · Jan 12, 2026 9:36 am

From where I sit, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term.