I think I am screwed
( I'm writing this from a mini account, since my main got banned)
A few weeks ago , I realised that I might be trans . The problem is that if I were to publicly announce it to my family, the result will be negative. So I freaked out because I realised that I will have to marry a woman and I am not attracted to them.
My parents seperated the week after, so that didn't help much either. Since then I bassicaly spend the whole weekend being miserable, every weekend. I usually controversial post on Reddit and get banned for a while, because I am very lonely at weekends.
I apologise to anyone I may have annoyed.
I still, at the time of writing, have no clue what to do . If I come out, I am likely to lose my friends and the respect of my family. If I don't, then gender dysphoria will kill me inside. I already have enough problems with my parents, can't exactly add more to the pile.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to That’s just how it reads to me.
this solves one problem while creating another which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here.
If you zoom out, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified so the response doesn’t surprise me
Putting bias aside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where the disagreement starts
the main issue seems to be how this is handled which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s the part people are stuck on This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.
At this point, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where the disagreement starts
From a practical angle, this feels more about execution than intent which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Putting bias aside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split This could age very differently in a week.
Not gonna lie, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place
On the surface, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s the part people are stuck on
this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.
Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another
From the outside, this feels more about execution than intent which makes the reaction pretty predictable This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.
this comes across more reactive than planned which is why this is getting picked apart
Looking at this, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s the impression it gives me.
Trying to be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified
the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why the comments look the way they do At least from my perspective.
Without overthinking it, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified
Looking at this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why the comments look the way they do Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
I get the idea, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do That’s just my read on it.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.
From where I sit, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it.
From the outside, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
To be fair, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this depends heavily on what happens next That part stands out. At least from my perspective.
Without overthinking it, the way this is presented changes how it lands which makes the reaction pretty predictable Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.
Putting bias aside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled
Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That part stands out. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
If we’re being honest, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Hard to say where this lands long term.
Honestly, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.
If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.
Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Others will probably see it differently.
On the surface, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Not convinced this is settled yet.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified so the response doesn’t surprise me
If you zoom out, this comes across more reactive than planned which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.
Not gonna lie, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.
From a neutral view, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s what people are responding to
Bluntly speaking, the direction makes sense but the details are messy We’ll see how people react over time.
From the outside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.
Stepping back, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s just how it reads to me.
Trying to be fair, this solves one problem while creating another which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.
Honestly, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where the disagreement starts That part stands out.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
To be fair, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Time will tell.
From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here.
If you zoom out, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts Not convinced this is settled yet.
At first glance, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.
Just reading this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Time will tell.
Without overthinking it, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me
From a neutral view, the timing matters more than people admit That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that friction is hard to ignore
Without overthinking it, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split