I think I am screwed
( I'm writing this from a mini account, since my main got banned)
A few weeks ago , I realised that I might be trans . The problem is that if I were to publicly announce it to my family, the result will be negative. So I freaked out because I realised that I will have to marry a woman and I am not attracted to them.
My parents seperated the week after, so that didn't help much either. Since then I bassicaly spend the whole weekend being miserable, every weekend. I usually controversial post on Reddit and get banned for a while, because I am very lonely at weekends.
I apologise to anyone I may have annoyed.
I still, at the time of writing, have no clue what to do . If I come out, I am likely to lose my friends and the respect of my family. If I don't, then gender dysphoria will kill me inside. I already have enough problems with my parents, can't exactly add more to the pile.
Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.
On the surface, this solves one problem while creating another This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
Looking at this, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where it gets complicated Not convinced this is settled yet.
Without overthinking it, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which turns this into more of a debate
Putting bias aside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.
Real talk, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.
Bluntly speaking, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.
Not gonna lie, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to Curious how this plays out.
Just reading this, this feels more about execution than intent This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable Hard to say where this lands long term.
Putting bias aside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up.
From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, this solves one problem while creating another Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.
Trying to be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that friction is hard to ignore Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where people will push back Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Just reading this, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where people will push back
Stepping back, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next.
Just reading this, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a neutral view, this comes across more reactive than planned which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s just how it reads to me.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy
this reads stronger on paper than in practice which makes the reaction pretty predictable We’ll see how people react over time.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy
this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why this is getting picked apart This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
On the surface, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.
If you zoom out, the follow-through is what will decide this which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.
Without overthinking it, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore
this feels rushed rather than thought through Feels like there’s more coming here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Trying to be fair, this solves one problem while creating another which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just my read on it.
From where I sit, the timing matters more than people admit Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s what people are responding to Others will probably see it differently.
If you zoom out, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move
From where I sit, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context.
Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which turns this into more of a debate
the main issue seems to be how this is handled which turns this into more of a debate Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Looking at this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified
At this point, this depends heavily on what happens next so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled which turns this into more of a debate Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
From a neutral view, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting.
At this point, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out.
Bluntly speaking, the timing matters more than people admit That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.
At this point, this feels more about execution than intent Not convinced this is settled yet.
I get the idea, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that tension shows up immediately
Without overthinking it, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.
At this point, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which turns this into more of a debate That’s just how it reads to me.
If you zoom out, this solves one problem while creating another
this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s what people are responding to Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.