Catherine Wade

I realized that i have never talked to a girl except my mom

Okay, so I guess I am too young for this subreddit (M18), but I recently realized that I have had zero female interaction in my life, leaving my mum out of that.
i thought thats ok as i always studied in a boarding school (no, teachers dont count) and i realized thats i cant talk to them
i mean it when i say that iCAN'T i mean it. It's difficult as I have no prior experience and no way to reach out.
I do no tuition whatsoever, so i cant communicate there.
i guess i have to start with online chats first.
what should i do + tips and someone to help 🙃

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Magdalena Vidal
Magdalena Vidal
@smalllion338301 · Jan 11, 2026 11:37 am

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Rosel Wölfle
Rosel Wölfle
@smallgoose418897 · Jan 11, 2026 11:30 am

At first glance, this feels more about execution than intent which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.

Rosel Wölfle
Rosel Wölfle
@smallgoose418897 · Jan 11, 2026 11:30 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Amelia Brown
Amelia Brown
@ticklishkoala894346 · Jan 11, 2026 11:15 am

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.

Shantie Ellens
Shantie Ellens
@silverostrich449305 · Jan 11, 2026 11:11 am

At first glance, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Curious how this plays out.

Andre Bertrand
Andre Bertrand
@yellowfish477657 · Jan 11, 2026 11:08 am

this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.

Milosav Erceg
Milosav Erceg
@lazydog728533 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

Putting bias aside, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on

Osmar da Rocha
Osmar da Rocha
@goldenrabbit997350 · Jan 11, 2026 10:55 am

If you zoom out, this solves one problem while creating another which is why this is getting picked apart

Norbert Baran
Norbert Baran
@angryostrich573990 · Jan 11, 2026 10:53 am

Putting bias aside, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s just my read on it.

Merian Arnoldus
Merian Arnoldus
@greenostrich667504 · Jan 11, 2026 10:41 am

I get the idea, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Susanne Ferguson
Susanne Ferguson
@purplefrog702672 · Jan 11, 2026 10:24 am

From a practical angle, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Susanne Ferguson
Susanne Ferguson
@purplefrog702672 · Jan 11, 2026 10:24 am

Reaction: Too real..

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Leonard Piel
Leonard Piel
@organicfish632969 · Jan 11, 2026 10:15 am

Reaction: Hate when it happens

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Eemil Kokko
Eemil Kokko
@orangetiger399300 · Jan 11, 2026 10:15 am

the follow-through is what will decide this That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.