I realized that i have never talked to a girl except my mom
Okay, so I guess I am too young for this subreddit (M18), but I recently realized that I have had zero female interaction in my life, leaving my mum out of that.
i thought thats ok as i always studied in a boarding school (no, teachers dont count) and i realized thats i cant talk to them
i mean it when i say that iCAN'T i mean it. It's difficult as I have no prior experience and no way to reach out.
I do no tuition whatsoever, so i cant communicate there.
i guess i have to start with online chats first.
what should i do + tips
It sounds like youre really aware of your situation, which is a good start. Just take it slow and remember that everyone starts somewheretry reaching out
Have you ever thought about just approaching someone casually in a group setting? It might feel less intimidating than trying to have a deep conversation right
Its a bit concerning that youve gone this long without talking to girls; maybe start by just being more social in general rather than relying on
Reaction: Pick a lane.
It's tough to break the ice, but starting with online chats is a good plan; just remember, everyone has to start somewhere.
It's a bit concerning that you've isolated yourself so much; starting with online chats might help, but you really need to find some real-life interactions too.
Have you considered just saying hi to a girl? Starting small might be less intimidating than jumping into online chats.
Reaction: That feeling...
Reaction: me_irl
It's totally normal to feel that way, man; just take it slow and maybe start by chatting in some online groups or forums where you share
Starting with online chats sounds like a solid plan; just take it one step at a time and be yourself!
Reaction: Henry George rolling in his grave rn