I hate my best friend
Over time, I’ve grown to dislike her more and more. I thought it’d go away, since for a while, these waves of distaste would come in waves for an hour or two and then if I saw her, they’d go away. Now, my hatred of her remains when I am near her, being texted by her, or even just thinking of or being reminded of her. It isn’t just annoyance, but full on anger and sometimes disgust over every little thing.
I‘m not entirely sure why it started happening except for the fact that we had started getting closer and she was more attached than I was and I lost the desire for connection. I wasn’t in the place to invest in any type of relationship or friendship, especially one where I can’t return anything. But instead of falling back into being acquainted, I have just started to despise her. Part of it might be that she has a few mental health issues, and I have bad correlations with those because of difficult times with family members growing up, but my other friends and I myself have my own problems. When she was most comfortable with me, she had started to give me details about her deeper psychosis and I was not the right person to hear that. Moreover, she is actively getting help, but i
Looking at this, the wording alone shifts how people read this Hard to say where this lands long term.
Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up.
the follow-through is what will decide this This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.
From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s just how it reads to me.
Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Not convinced this is settled yet.
Without overthinking it, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back Not convinced this is settled yet.
Without overthinking it, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s just my read on it.
Looking at this, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time.
On the surface, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.
From the outside, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s what people are responding to Time will tell.
Trying to be fair, this solves one problem while creating another which turns this into more of a debate Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
If we’re being honest, the main issue seems to be how this is handled
this comes across more reactive than planned Interested to see the follow-up.
Bluntly speaking, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s what people are responding to At least from my perspective.
Bluntly speaking, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what changes the context.
From a practical angle, the way this is presented changes how it lands That part stands out. Interested to see the follow-up.
On the surface, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time.
Looking at this, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.
I get the idea, the follow-through is what will decide this which turns this into more of a debate Feels like there’s more coming here.
Honestly, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where it gets complicated Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy We’ll see how people react over time.
If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why this is getting picked apart
Reaction: me_irl
From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what changes the context.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the impression it gives me.
From where I sit, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
Bluntly speaking, this comes across more reactive than planned which is why the comments look the way they do
At first glance, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Trying to be fair, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Reaction: me_irl
Without overthinking it, this feels rushed rather than thought through
this feels more about execution than intent
Reaction: me_irl
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone At least from my perspective.
From where I sit, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
If you zoom out, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Time will tell.
From a practical angle, the follow-through is what will decide this
Reaction: Me irl
Bluntly speaking, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where it gets complicated Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: me_irl
At this point, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. Time will tell.
this comes across more reactive than planned which turns this into more of a debate This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Not gonna lie, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context.
Real talk, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Reaction: me_irl
this solves one problem while creating another and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which explains why reactions are split
Without overthinking it, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s what people are responding to At least from my perspective.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s the part people are stuck on Time will tell.
Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.
Bluntly speaking, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s just my read on it.