i feel like i’m a better, happier person since leaving my family & hometown
A few years ago i moved rather far away from my family & hometown. I’ve noticed since leaving i feel not only happier in my day or day life but i feel i’m also now i better person. I’ve always had an unhealthy family dynamic. I don’t have any bond with my parents, grandparents or any extended family. My mother wasn’t much of wife to my dad nor a mother to us kids. My dad on the other hand likes to ignore problems. They divorced when i was 10, remarried, had more kids. I grew up poor. Never had a thing handed to me. I was considered the problem child. I had anger issues, i caused drama in my friend groups and jobs i had. I didn’t really ever care about school or life really. I was angry at the world. I told my family from a young age that i was getting out of there and moving far away. I remember being a child and praying to whatever god is out there that i’d wake up and the life i was given was a bad dream and i had a mom who acted like a mother, father who cared, we had a better house, money, because they did better in life and i was normal.
I moved away in my mid 20’s. I remember no one believed i was actually leaving when i told them. They kinda laughed at me told me i was being
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It's amazing how stepping away from familiar ties can lead to personal growth. Sometimes, the best way to discover who we really are is by breaking away from expectations. It sounds like you've really embraced that change and found a new sense of self—kudos for that journey!