Seraina Gautier

I don't want to advance?

I've been working in IT/Security for a couple years now and I'm being pressured to move into a leadership role that, frankly, I don't want. But the business is putting me in the position where they expect me to be a manager when that sounds lame and if I don't accept, my job may be at risk. Does anyone have advice on *not advancing* I'm cool with what I do at the compensation I get paid. Do I *need* to do more to keep a job?

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Anton Ahola
Anton Ahola
@goldenfrog846527 · Jan 12, 2026 2:37 am

this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated Time will tell.

Lily Duncan
Lily Duncan
@yellowcat719325 · Jan 12, 2026 2:31 am

At first glance, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Gelske Coppelmans
Gelske Coppelmans
@orangeswan168865 · Jan 12, 2026 2:29 am

Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the impression it gives me.

Marie Andersen
Marie Andersen Verified
@redfrog925761 · Jan 12, 2026 2:28 am

At this point, the wording alone shifts how people read this Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.

Nadja Živković
Nadja Živković
@silverfish200856 · Jan 12, 2026 2:22 am

Stepping back, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place Others will probably see it differently.

Maëly Chevalier
Maëly Chevalier
@crazygorilla307244 · Jan 12, 2026 2:22 am

the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated At least from my perspective.

Elóides Cavalcanti
Elóides Cavalcanti
@redleopard256393 · Jan 12, 2026 2:18 am

the follow-through is what will decide this which is why this is getting picked apart At least from my perspective.

Milosav Erceg
Milosav Erceg
@lazydog728533 · Jan 12, 2026 2:18 am

If we’re being honest, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.

Tim Davis
Tim Davis
@angrydog387757 · Jan 12, 2026 2:13 am

Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why opinions are all over the place Interested to see the follow-up.

Roli Pereira
Roli Pereira
@bluerabbit135285 · Jan 12, 2026 2:13 am

From my side, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Svobodan Haruk
Svobodan Haruk
@ticklishrabbit759188 · Jan 12, 2026 2:11 am

From the outside, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.

Parv Kavser
Parv Kavser
@silverleopard730252 · Jan 12, 2026 2:09 am

this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Lauryn Cramer
Lauryn Cramer
@sadsnake234867 · Jan 12, 2026 2:02 am

Trying to be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Olena Yarich
Olena Yarich
@orangegoose453786 · Jan 12, 2026 2:01 am

From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Joseph Green
Joseph Green
@sadtiger842922 · Jan 12, 2026 1:57 am

Not gonna lie, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out. Curious how this plays out.

Adelina Hidle
Adelina Hidle
@silverbear982555 · Jan 12, 2026 1:55 am

Real talk, this feels rushed rather than thought through which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context.

Adelina Hidle
Adelina Hidle
@silverbear982555 · Jan 12, 2026 1:55 am

Reaction: Downvote away

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Brativoy Kalchenko
Brativoy Kalchenko
@tinymouse733792 · Jan 12, 2026 1:55 am

Real talk, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Jake Jones
Jake Jones
@redladybug737238 · Jan 12, 2026 1:54 am

Without overthinking it, this comes across more reactive than planned so the response doesn’t surprise me Not convinced this is settled yet.

Lizan Kee
Lizan Kee
@orangegoose612250 · Jan 12, 2026 1:54 am

the timing matters more than people admit

Cristal Carrasco
Cristal Carrasco
@yellowrabbit464460 · Jan 12, 2026 1:54 am

this feels more about execution than intent and that’s what people are responding to Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.

Cristal Carrasco
Cristal Carrasco
@yellowrabbit464460 · Jan 12, 2026 1:54 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Charlotte Claire
Charlotte Claire
@angrydog954665 · Jan 12, 2026 1:53 am

Just reading this, this comes across more reactive than planned At least from my perspective.

Audrey Legrand
Audrey Legrand
@organicduck629110 · Jan 12, 2026 12:32 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Herminia Jennings
Herminia Jennings
@silverleopard975454 · Jan 11, 2026 9:18 pm

From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable This could age very differently in a week.

Elliot Margaret
Elliot Margaret
@bigzebra898567 · Jan 11, 2026 9:18 pm

Stepping back, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just my read on it.

Sky Ensing
Sky Ensing
@goldenmeercat615284 · Jan 11, 2026 9:18 pm

Putting bias aside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Let’s see what happens next.

Elliot Margaret
Elliot Margaret
@bigzebra898567 · Jan 11, 2026 9:18 pm

Reaction: It's been 7 years , yes 7 whole years

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Herminia Jennings
Herminia Jennings
@silverleopard975454 · Jan 11, 2026 9:18 pm

Reaction: problem solved

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مهدیس گلشن
مهدیس گلشن
@angrybear241177 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

At first glance, this feels more about execution than intent which turns this into more of a debate That’s just how it reads to me.

Hazel Green
Hazel Green
@tinybird722114 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

If we’re being honest, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.

Othmar Prill
Othmar Prill
@smallmeercat161790 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

If we’re being honest, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.

Evie Singh
Evie Singh
@yellowwolf589253 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

this comes across more reactive than planned which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s just my read on it.

Ülkü Tanrıkulu
Ülkü Tanrıkulu
@whiteswan474552 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

Just reading this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That part stands out.

Terra Kelly
Terra Kelly
@bluekoala791463 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

Looking at this, this comes across more reactive than planned Curious how this plays out.

Silviana Rezende
Silviana Rezende
@greenfish465991 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

Trying to be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.

Olivia Luna
Olivia Luna
@ticklishfish306243 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

Trying to be fair, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here.

Janou Leppink
Janou Leppink
@organicgorilla569466 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

At this point, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Luz Lozano
Luz Lozano
@browngorilla160747 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.

Luz Lozano
Luz Lozano
@browngorilla160747 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

Reaction: the collection of colorful pens

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Ceyhun Oraloğlu
Ceyhun Oraloğlu
@redtiger465744 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where the disagreement starts This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

Jade Taylor
Jade Taylor
@bigpeacock943588 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out.

Reinhard Hermann
Reinhard Hermann Verified
@happygoose739748 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s the part people are stuck on Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Marcia Garrett
Marcia Garrett
@crazylion542529 · Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

Honestly, the way this is presented changes how it lands Time will tell.

Peggy Owens
Peggy Owens
@browngorilla972787 · Jan 11, 2026 9:16 pm

this reads stronger on paper than in practice which turns this into more of a debate Let’s see what happens next.

Emilie Jensen
Emilie Jensen
@brownbear864764 · Jan 11, 2026 9:16 pm

From a neutral view, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.

Đurađ Mitrović
Đurađ Mitrović
@goldenladybug229171 · Jan 11, 2026 9:16 pm

From a practical angle, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where people will push back

Rania Brodahl
Rania Brodahl
@sadpanda698294 · Jan 11, 2026 9:16 pm

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here

سپهر احمدی
سپهر احمدی
@redkoala420393 · Jan 11, 2026 9:16 pm

If you zoom out, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Violeta Roy
Violeta Roy
@lazyfrog401104 · Jan 11, 2026 9:16 pm

On the surface, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Anupama Babu
Anupama Babu
@organicostrich823428 · Jan 11, 2026 9:15 pm

From a neutral view, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.

Katherine Stewart
Katherine Stewart
@beautifulduck966112 · Jan 11, 2026 9:15 pm

Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Roope Eskola
Roope Eskola
@orangerabbit923980 · Jan 11, 2026 9:15 pm

this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Teodoro Treviño
Teodoro Treviño
@brownpanda306931 · Jan 11, 2026 9:15 pm

If you zoom out, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to

Sanja Glavaš
Sanja Glavaš
@sadfrog355292 · Jan 11, 2026 9:15 pm

I get the idea, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.

Dobrisvit Gonskiy
Dobrisvit Gonskiy
@smallladybug804661 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

Stepping back, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context.

Maja Møller
Maja Møller
@yellowrabbit588976 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

Real talk, the way this is presented changes how it lands Others will probably see it differently.

Lorena Rodríguez
Lorena Rodríguez
@bluekoala324699 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

If we’re being honest, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do

Dobrisvit Gonskiy
Dobrisvit Gonskiy
@smallladybug804661 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Vivian Refvik
Vivian Refvik
@lazyostrich855652 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.

Luca Evans
Luca Evans
@orangelion270252 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

this depends heavily on what happens next We’ll see how people react over time.

Allen Anderson
Allen Anderson
@bluebutterfly713608 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

Looking at this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven

Alisa Hakala
Alisa Hakala
@goldenswan641431 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

Just reading this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just how it reads to me.

Ülkü Erbulak
Ülkü Erbulak
@reddog538163 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

At this point, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which makes the reaction pretty predictable Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.

Angélica Palomo
Angélica Palomo
@sadtiger477453 · Jan 11, 2026 9:14 pm

At this point, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the impression it gives me.

Anitha Rajesh
Anitha Rajesh
@goldengorilla368606 · Jan 11, 2026 9:13 pm

Putting bias aside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.

Theo Thompson
Theo Thompson
@yellowlion293540 · Jan 11, 2026 9:13 pm

this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.

Francisco Schmitt
Francisco Schmitt
@sadleopard677430 · Jan 11, 2026 9:13 pm

this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.

Frederik Jørgensen
Frederik Jørgensen
@sadduck980481 · Jan 11, 2026 9:13 pm

On the surface, this feels rushed rather than thought through which explains why reactions are split This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.