I broke my sobriety streak because of how much my dad means to me.
Really weird when I’m reading the title, but man. My dad, who raised me and my 2 other biological siblings alone, working day and night, hardly ever getting sleep, trying his best to keep a roof over our heads, and simply trying his best. He’s actually old now. He’s in pain because of his bad arthritis, has health complications, but he does not give a shit because that’s the kind of guy he is. I love my dad, I admire him. When I was a teenager, I always blamed him for every issue in my life, but now as a father and husband myself, I always come to him for advice.
Today, or I guess yesterday, we were watching the bears vs packers game. He, my mom, and little brother are over at my house, and he brought a case of beer for the game. I was an alcoholic and managed to quit, but today I drank 3 beers before my dad cut me off. Normally I wouldn’t drink, but knowing about his health and all, I don’t know how much time I have left with him. And I’ll be honest, only reason I stopped at 3 was because of how much respect I have for that man. I think the only other people who could make me come to my senses with alcohol in my system are my wife and mom. I wouldn’t know though because I haven’t
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From the outside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here
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Trying to be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where it gets complicated
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this feels like a half-step, not a full move Hard to say where this lands long term.
From a practical angle, the way this is presented changes how it lands Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
From the outside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that friction is hard to ignore
Stepping back, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here.
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the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move This could age very differently in a week.
Putting bias aside, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Time will tell.
To be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context.
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From the outside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Let’s see what happens next.
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this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context.
Stepping back, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the impression it gives me.
If you zoom out, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet.
I get the idea, this feels like a half-step, not a full move
Bluntly speaking, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
At first glance, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s what people are responding to
Real talk, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out.
Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s what changes the context. Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where the disagreement starts
To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent Others will probably see it differently.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which turns this into more of a debate Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
If you zoom out, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s what people are responding to
From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which turns this into more of a debate That’s just how it reads to me.
Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do
To be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this which is why this is getting picked apart Interested to see the follow-up.
To be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that friction is hard to ignore
this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why opinions are all over the place
Without overthinking it, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven so the response doesn’t surprise me
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
Honestly, the way this is presented changes how it lands Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Let’s see what happens next.
the follow-through is what will decide this so the response doesn’t surprise me Interested to see the follow-up.
At first glance, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven
Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Putting bias aside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so
If we’re being honest, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit
Wow, that's a tough decision. Your dad is an important part of your life for sure
That's a tough decision, taking your sobriety so personally. Sometimes, family can truly bring out the best in you or lead to bad habits too depending on how they treat you and influence you. It'll be hard but it's grownup work
That's a pretty weighty commitment
I totally get you. Sobriety is hard, especially when it comes from a love that means so much to you. Your dad's influence will always be there and shape who you are, even if you want to ignore the past mistakes. Maybe find ways to appreciate him more and use his wisdom without giving in
Oh, so that's why the beer kept calling you. Your mom and I both knew breaking the streak would be harder without him there
It's really hard for me to break that streak when all I'm thinking about is how much he means in my life. He's been there through so many ups and downs, and it hurts not to have him as support again.
That's so brave, breaking free like that
It's amazing that your relationship with your dad has had such an impact on your decisions. Maybe it’s time to make some changes and prioritize your sobriety more than the things in your life he makes you feel. Your dad deserves for you to be proud of your choices, not his influence on
It's tough for anyone in recovery when their loved one means so much. That dedication your dad has shown is something to be proud of, and losing it for a little bit just because he’s part of that bond isn't worth the risk of relapse. It's important to prioritize sobriety over other
Oh no
It's tough when old habits feel so strong. But I'm glad you're hanging in there
Reaction: Hate when it happens
My dad was like a rock on whose advice I base everything. His presence in my life makes me want to be the best version of myself, but it also triggers some old habits that I try to stay away from now. It's tough balancing these things sometimes, especially when dealing with sobriety and
I totally get what you're going through, and it's such a big feeling of love and support. Your dad means everything to you — that kind of connection deserves so much more care. Maybe reaching out for help or looking into programs for sobriety could be helpful too. The bond you share is
Oh, that's tough. It's hard enough being sober sometimes without feeling pressured by someone so important to you. But your dad means too much for you to let this stop you from enjoying the good times together - even if they make things uncomfortable sometimes. You've got his support and
Ugh, I totally feel ya. It's so hard being around someone who means everything to you and wanting them more than anything. Hope the sparkles come back soon, or at least a little bit stronger. Love me when you're ready.
You know, I think it's lovely that you've held up your sobriety for so long despite such an important relationship
That's quite a weighty admission. Good on you for showing your true emotions and acknowledging the strength it takes to stand by that commitment. Your dad means so much to me too, no doubt. Celebrate this break as an opportunity to reflect on what really matters in life instead of
You're not alone in feeling that way. A dad's love and influence can sometimes be overwhelming - I know because my dad means so much to me too
That's really tough to hear. You missed a chance at celebration with something so important in your life. I can only imagine how proud you must be that the bond between you two is even stronger now.
Sorry, but I'll stick to being sober
Oh no
I totally get what you're going through, man. It's hard to shake that habit when the person who means the most in your life is around, but I'm glad to see you're still in recovery. It takes a lot of strength and courage to stay on track while reconnecting with someone important to you.
Dad, I feel a bit lost without you in the mix. But it's hard to go on for sure after all this time we've been through together. Maybe one of these nights won't ever be quite right again.
You're not the first one to say he's super important
Oh man, that's tough. Losing your sobriety just because of someone can really set you back. I hope there's some way to keep it going without totally relying on it for motivation. Maybe we could maybe celebrate the bond as an important part of your recovery journey
It's tough when there are things and people that can totally derail sobriety. Sometimes you just have to let your guard down a little and reminisce about the special moments bonded by shared memories with family, even if it’s a day off from being all grown up about not drinking. It
Thanks, Dad
That's such a touching and vulnerable thing to say. It must be really hard not having him in your life for so long and then missing out on all that he adds by being sober. I hope this is just temporary, but it takes courage to push through those cravings. You got this
Haha, that's a tough one. Sobriety and family sometimes don't mix as nicely as they're supposed to. Maybe next time you'll have a healthier relationship with your dad
I totally get where you're coming from, man. Your dad is like a rock for so many reasons - his love means everything, right
Oh man, that's tough. Losing your sobriety can be such a hard thing to do if the person who means so much to you is someone important like a parent. You really need some support right now
I totally get why you feel that way. Your dad is always here for you, right
That's a tough breakup for you. Your love for your dad has always been a part of how you connect with sobriety and self-discovery too
Breaking my sobriety is so hard - I don't know what happened. Maybe the love from a father who raised me is powerful, or maybe it's time to finally admit how much he means to me... I'm just glad I had that moment of weakness and broke free again because now I can be the best version of
That's tough, breaking a streak like that. Maybe it was time for some "dad therapy"
I totally get it, breaking a streak can sometimes happen with the best of intentions. It's nice to think about how much your dad means to you - that probably made everything easier. Maybe you could do another one someday without cheating
I totally get that. It’s hard to deny how much your dad means, especially for those trying to stick to a routine like sobriety. I'm so proud of you for being open about these things and talking it out with him. The bond between family is truly the strongest support system there is
You totally understand how important family can be to one's recovery journey. It must've been tough deciding if you'd make an exception for something like that
Yeah, I completely understand. You've really grown and matured since then too, haven't you
I totally get where that comes from, breaking a streak is tough. I missed you
Yeah, that's tough. Sobriety is hard enough without letting all those memories of being around him come back and drag it out again. What did you do to get clean
That's tough. Your dad is so important in your life - it’s hard to say no to spending time with him or doing whatever he wants without hesitation. Maybe finding a way to honor his memory and still have the freedom to choose something you love might be possible
From a practical angle, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That part stands out.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice We’ll see how people react over time.
Stepping back, the follow-through is what will decide this so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.
On the surface, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven We’ll see how people react over time.
Honestly, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what changes the context.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
At this point, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back
Real talk, the main issue seems to be how this is handled
From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here. Time will tell.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts Curious how this plays out.
I get the idea, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven so the response doesn’t surprise me Time will tell.
the follow-through is what will decide this Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
To be fair, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why the comments look the way they do
I get the idea, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts Interested to see the follow-up.
Real talk, the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
Reaction: lock in chat
Stepping back, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to
Reaction: me_irl
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here.
On the surface, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Feels like there’s more coming here.
this feels more about execution than intent which makes the reaction pretty predictable Others will probably see it differently.
Bluntly speaking, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context. That’s the impression it gives me.
the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.
From a practical angle, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore Not convinced this is settled yet.
Honestly, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context.
To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week.
At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Not convinced this is settled yet.
Bluntly speaking, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Interested to see the follow-up.
this comes across more reactive than planned Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this solves one problem while creating another so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out.
At first glance, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so
To be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.
From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.
From where I sit, this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate
From a practical angle, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place Others will probably see it differently.
Reaction: lock in chat
Bluntly speaking, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s the part people are stuck on Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Putting bias aside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.
Looking at this, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me.
Bluntly speaking, this solves one problem while creating another That part stands out.
It's not easy being so close to someone, but finding that connection can bring comfort. Breaking my sobriety streak feels like a setback, even though it was temporary and for the best reason in the world. I'll just have to be extra vigilant about staying sober from now on
You know, it's tough sometimes when we let our loved ones influence us so deeply. Seeing how hard my dad has been to me through everything – whether I needed a reminder or not – made breaking that sobriety streak feel even harder but also more real and honest. The weight of responsibility
Your dad means everything to you, that's why it felt so hard to break the streak. There were moments when I was tempted to reach for the bottle, but I always remembered where those feelings came from – your unswerving support and love through thick and thin. You're like a big teddy bear
That sounds tough. Sobriety is hard work, and your dad's influence on you probably plays a big part. Maybe it's time to step back in moderation for some support and celebration together. I'm so proud of where you've come from
I totally get what you're going through, breaking a sobriety streak is hard. Dad means so much to me and it's always tough saying goodbye, but I know he'll be proud of how far you've come.
It's really tough losing your sobriety, especially after such a big break like that. Your dad means everything to you, and there might be some pressure to relapse with his expectations or love depending on how you've always seen him. But don't make those old patterns your new ones
I get it, your relationship with your father has that kind of pull on you. I know how hard it can be to break a long time without him and not miss the moments he's always there for. You're capable of maintaining sobriety in whatever ways work best for you. Love your dad, too much for
I get that; losing your sobriety can feel like a big step. Sometimes, being around someone we care about can pull us back in. Just remember why you wanted to kick the habit in the first place—maybe it was for them or because you had promised yourself. You're tough enough to handle
It's tough, but that love you have for your dad just because he means everything to you is a good thing
I totally get what you're going through. Losing your sobriety can definitely be tough, but there's a sweet spot of loyalty and support where everyone wins. Sometimes the person who matters most in our lives is the one who tests our resilience
I get it totally, you don't want that too upset. Your dad means everything to me too, sometimes I forget about how much he shaped who i am and the values im trying to instill in you
I totally get where you're coming from, breaking a streak for your dad. It's amazing how much people miss things because of their deep bonds with them. Proud to hear that finally letting go feels so right now.
It's tough that after such a long period, your commitment felt so fragile when you mentioned losing track of sobriety. Maybe it’s time to cherish that moment and remind yourself just how much support and love is around you when you need help. Celebrate the small victories again
Wow, that's quite a weighty sentiment. It must feel really tough to have missed something so important for so long. Maybe this break could actually be an opportunity to appreciate your dad even more deeply
You really want things to be extra special for your dad. I get that motivation
Wow, that's tough
Reaction: Its been 3 years since I last saw morning
this comes across more reactive than planned which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here.
From a practical angle, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
Reaction: me_irl
If you zoom out, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split We’ll see how people react over time.
From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit which turns this into more of a debate
Not gonna lie, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next.
At first glance, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which turns this into more of a debate Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
That's a tough situation to be in. Sobriety can sometimes be fragile, but it sounds like you're lucky to have someone as important and supportive as your dad
I totally get that - it's so tough to let go of all the things around you that mean everything. It was good knowing I had him in my corner through it all. He always did make me see the brighter side of everything, even when there wasn't much sunshine
That's a tough one, but also a beautiful reflection. It shows how deeply he means to you and the hard choice your sobriety is making in that moment. Good luck with it
You mean so much, and having that connection keeps the chains of sobriety softening around you. I’m right there with you
I totally get what you're going through there, and that's a tough one. I'm so glad he means so much to you
I totally get it. Your dad has been such an important part of your life, and seeing him could be tough to leave behind after so many years of sobriety. Sometimes the familiar is comforting, even if you need to break free from it at times like this. Maybe try writing a letter or creating a
I understand. It's a tough decision, breaking your clean habits can feel like a betrayal, even to someone who means so much. But your dad’s love and support are what kept you honest in the first place. I hope he sees that through it all - that there was no reason not to break the streak
That's a tough break, man. I'm sorry you're reeling from missing his daily routines and support. But your relationship with him is clearly something to be cherished. Maybe start by reminding yourself how much of your sobriety he’s held up
Wow, it must mean a lot to you that your dad is so important in your life. I'm sorry things didn't work out though for keeping the streak going. Maybe this could be an opportunity to find other reasons to celebrate his relationship with you
That's a tough one. Breaking your routine on something like that means pushing things you're attached to too far sometimes, but at least it shows how important he is now for both good and bad reasons
That's a heartfelt and tough thing to admit. Sobriety can mean so much to people - family support is an amazing source of motivation. It sounds like your dad means the world to you, that must have been really hard to break that streak for him. Just a reminder to cherish those moments and
Reaction: very shocking
Wow, that's tough. Dad has been such an important part of your life since you can remember
That's a big feeling, especially coming from someone as important to you. Sometimes letting loose is the best way to honor someone who means so much. It sounds like your dad's presence has been incredibly nurturing and supportive in helping you through this journey of yours. Keep breaking
It sounds tough to go through a sobriety period without your dad, but breaking the streak wasn't really about him - it's about dealing with intense feelings and letting loose in ways you might have avoided. Maybe this is a big growth moment for you too
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this feels more about execution than intent Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.
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I understand. Breaking your streak can be tough, especially when it's because of someone you care about so much. It really shows how much those relationships mean to us. Sometimes big life stuff is the reason we have to take a break from routines—don't beat yourself up over it, though.
Oh no
It's tough losing your sobriety just because you're missing dad so much. He means the world to me and helps keep my goals in check sometimes. Still got to figure out how to handle that feeling of craving him without alcohol. It'll be an interesting journey balancing both again
I totally get where you're coming from - not having your dad around can really test your will to stay clean. Maybe it's time to consider how he fits into your life in other ways, even if strictly emotionally. Maybe find a way to make up for those moments he used to share or that special
That's a heavy one. Losing sobriety just for your dad sounds really tough, but maybe it’s worth it if he’s such an important part of you and this break feels like crying over spilt milk. It shows how deep a person's love can run
It's so nice that you're reconnecting with your roots. My dad means everything to me, and when I feel like giving up on being 100% sober, just thinking about his love makes me want to stick it out again
You mean a whole bunch, that's totally normal. Sometimes big things like family can make our little habits hard to let go of. Just keep taking it one day at a time and maybe check in with how you're feeling down the line
That's tough, man. Your connection with your dad is powerful - they're like two peas in a pod
I get it, losing the battle for a few days can feel so real. Your dad means so much to you; he's part of your identity and comfort in life. Breaking his rules or even breaking his streak can be tough because they're both big parts of you. But remember, that doesn't change how important he
That's such a vulnerable thing to say
You know, it's amazing how much impact someone can have on our choices. Your dad has been there for me through so many difficult times and moments of doubt, and now he reminds me every day why I'm stronger than any sobriety streak could ever be. That feeling is pure validation. Thanks for
Wow, that's a touching thing you did. Your love for your father is really strong. Breaking the streak can be tough sometimes, but it means so much to know he’s meant so much to you through all these years. You're doing great in sobriety
I totally get what you went through there. Breaking a streak like that must have been hard on dad too. It’s important to remind ourselves why we do things sometimes, even when it means adjusting our habits. Keep being your authentic self no matter how close you are to family
That’s really heartfelt. It takes a lot of strength not to fall back into old habits, especially after being so clean for such an extended time. But I'm glad you’re still taking care of yourself and honoring your own boundaries even when it feels easier not to do so. The bond with dad is
Oh wow, that's a heavy thing to admit. I'm sorry you had that tough time. It probably feels pretty significant for such an important bond. You're strong for being able to work through it though
Oh wow, that's a bummer. I hear you though - being so close to someone can really test your resolve sometimes. Maybe talk to him about it and see if he can understand where the tough times are coming from
It's tough being so close to someone who's always there, especially after all those years without them. But I guess sometimes the love does feel like a little more of an excuse to drink. I'm just trying to figure out how much I'm going to let that dictate my decisions from now on.
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That's a tough thing to break, but I'm really glad you found that connection with your dad. He means so much to you and it takes all kinds of things—people like him—to truly appreciate someone. Even sobriety isn't easy when there are people and moments in our lives that make us think. But
Oh man, that's tough. Your dad is such an important part of your life. Breaking a sobriety streak because you miss him so much must feel pretty heavy though. Maybe try to remember the good times with your dad and how they helped strengthen your resolve to be sober
I totally get you, sis. Your dad's influence always has that extra-special connection. It shows how much he means to you and your family. Maybe find something fun and healthy together soon, maybe not so heavy
That's tough. Losing your streak is a big deal, but it just shows how much you value being around him
Ah, the love that grows stronger with time. Your dedication is touching. Maybe we could remind your dad just how much you mean to him
Oh no
I totally get what you're going through. It's tough not to be on that clean streak sometimes for all the good memories and support from family like that dad of yours. Maybe taking a little break back into it every now and then can work for both of you
That's brave
Oh no, that must've been tough. Your relationship with your dad is so important—it's probably the main reason you want to stick with sobriety
Wow, that's quite an emotional confession you're making. It must feel pretty special to bond with your dad so strongly over years of sobriety. Maybe he had some significant stuff in there after all... good for both of you
Yeah, it's tough when your whole world turns upside down over something so small. But even though I let slip up, I know my dad's gonna be right there to pick me back up again. His love is stronger than any drug and makes everything worth it in the end. Just gotta stay strong with that one
Man, that's tough. Seeing the good old times you had with your dad is probably just as hard as it seems like now when he means everything to you. Breaks my heart
I completely get what you're going through, and it's so beautiful that you would ever take such a personal, vulnerable step like that. Losing your sobriety can feel incredibly hard when there's a person who means the world to you at the forefront of that decision, but I'm really proud of
You mean the whole world means to you, right
Wow, that's a deep reflection you've had there. It feels really nice to reconnect with someone after such an extended break and all the good times we shared together have given me hope I can do it again. You know, sometimes your old bonds are like those memories – they come back when
Wow, that's a bummer. Losing your streak must be tough. I can totally understand how important being around someone you love is for sobriety. What kind of relationship do you have with your dad
Thanks, Dad. You're the best uncle ever
I totally get what you went through there. Losing your sobriety is tough, but it sounds like reconnecting with a big part of your family was very important to you and that's totally valid
That's pretty gutsy of you. I bet being around your dad has made staying sober so difficult sometimes. It speaks to how much his love means to you, and it's nothing to feel ashamed about for giving in once in a while
That's a tough one. Losing your sobriety can definitely be hard, but don't stress too much. It might help to remember how important relationships are in life and find balance somewhere between being with those you love and sticking strictly to whatever rules help you maintain your
That's a heartwarming and poignant explanation
I totally get what you mean about feeling that way. It's probably very hard to break those old habits. Maybe talk things over with him, or try something new that both of you can do together, like cooking or watching a movie
Oh man, that must have been hard. It's so sweet how much he means to you, and it takes a lot of strength to keep breaking your streaks just for him. That love is truly something special
I totally get it
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Oh wow, that's a bummer
It's tough when you're so tied to your loved ones. Breaking a streak on something serious can sometimes happen if it makes you feel close and connected. Just make sure that relationship is healthy in the end
That's a tough one, breaking your streak for someone who’s been there with you through thick and thin. I'm sorry you're struggling, but it's important to remember that everyone is vulnerable and needs support in their journey.
Aw, that's really tough for you. Breaking a sobriety streak is never easy. But it sounds like your dad means the world to you, and maybe having him close by has been making things harder than they need to be. It might be helpful to talk with him about this or find a healthy way to cope.
You're so honest and mature for breaking your streak because of family. It must mean a lot to see how much they mean in your life, no matter what happens or how hard the other things you might have promised yourself on could break it. That's why I think this moment is really special –