I am so sick of my in-laws inability to maintain a home
We’ve always had a mostly good relationship with my in-laws. They show up for my kids, family gatherings, if something comes up and I need someone to watch the kids for work or whatever they almost always volunteer. Our kids love them dearly and love to spend time with them. About 8 years ago they bought a home on a rent to own contract and was able to pay it off last year. They got a good deal on the 3 bedroom 2 bath trailer with a couple acres only paying around 35,000 for it. The bones of the home was still good but it was in need of some updates as the home still had the original late 80’s wallpaper, flooring, etc. honestly over time the home has fallen apart. My FIL works part time handy man type jobs and also gets disability, my MIL works nights cleaning banks so she gets home and asleep around 6am and sleeps until late afternoon each day. Over time these original pieces have gotten destroyed and also just laziness has destroyed part too. There is also a lack of discipline in the home, as they still have now teens and young adults in the home. Some examples is they have a large roach infestation, I have hired an exterminator for my own home because of them and pay $50 a month
Putting bias aside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled