Emilie Roy

I actually hate Working From Home (WFH) and I'm tired of pretending it's perfect

I know this is going to be unpopular on Reddit, where everyone seems to be a software engineer who loves staying in their pajamas, but I need to say it: WFH has destroyed my mental health.
When the pandemic started, I loved it. No commute, saving money on gas, cooking at home. It felt like freedom. But three years later, I feel like a prisoner in my own home. My living room is my office. My bedroom is my break room. There is no separation between "work life" and "home life." I wake up, sit at the computer, work until dark, and then stay in the same room to watch TV.
I miss the small human interactions. Saying good morning to the receptionist, grabbing coffee with a coworker, the decompreesion time during the drive home. I feel socially isolated and incredibly lonely.
Also, I feel like my career has stalled because I'm just a name on a screen, not a person in the room. Does anyone else feel like returning to the office (at least hybrid) would actually save their sanity, or am I just crazy?

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Judith Steward
Judith Steward
@angrysnake284741 · Jan 10, 2026 8:19 pm

Reaction: Dont tell your wife shes like her mother

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Maja Kristensen
Maja Kristensen
@bigbear806120 · Jan 10, 2026 8:19 pm

From my side, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Maja Kristensen
Maja Kristensen
@bigbear806120 · Jan 10, 2026 8:19 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Feija Gijsbertsen
Feija Gijsbertsen
@purplerabbit511669 · Jan 10, 2026 8:17 pm

Reaction: Speaking as a Brit, she definitely wasn't the main reason

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Clarice Souza
Clarice Souza
@purplesnake190597 · Jan 10, 2026 8:15 pm

Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone We’ll see how people react over time.

Roberto Navarro
Roberto Navarro
@sadostrich755264 · Jan 10, 2026 8:13 pm

Reaction: He belongs to her now.

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Marion Lemoine
Marion Lemoine
@crazygoose997858 · Jan 10, 2026 8:13 pm

Reaction: Sorry goober, but I dont wanna cosplay a popsicle ><

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Kristin Harvey
Kristin Harvey
@silvercat686987 · Jan 10, 2026 8:13 pm

Reaction: POV: You Are Brooklyn Jail Warden, What Will You Do?

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Noam Lemoine
Noam Lemoine
@bigduck375171 · Jan 10, 2026 8:13 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Terra Kelly
Terra Kelly
@bluekoala791463 · Jan 10, 2026 8:12 pm

If you zoom out, this feels more about execution than intent