How do I go about doing these things now after realizations?
Okay- so let me explain. I’ve been racist over the past few years. Let me explain the things I’ve done.
Main ones I have are not standing up for people in situation where they had people being racist to them.
This happened 2 times in highschool. All in a classroom setting. I’d hear people being racist on the otherside of the classroom. I’d freeze up, unsure of what to do- when I should have stood up for said people. Especially since I knew both people who did said things- one being my brothers friend, and another being my now ex best friend. I never called them out when I should have. I just briskly thought that she’d change with time, she’d stop calling me homophobic slurs, and stop using them in general, and then it just kept escalating with others at the end of the year and with myself- that I cut her off. I don’t have contact with either individual… although weirdly I am friends with my brothers best friends dad?? Lmao. So far he himself hasn’t shown me any traces of racism, if he does this time I know what to do. But I do realize not standing up for them- was in fact racist in a way.
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Honestly, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that friction is hard to ignore Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
Honestly, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.
At first glance, this solves one problem while creating another This probably isn’t the last word on it.
From my side, this feels rushed rather than thought through Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why the comments look the way they do Hard to say where this lands long term.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place
From where I sit, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s the part people are stuck on Interested to see the follow-up.
From where I sit, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me.
Looking at this, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
Looking at this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the impression it gives me.
From where I sit, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why the comments look the way they do Not convinced this is settled yet.
From a practical angle, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which makes the reaction pretty predictable This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Honestly, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.
Without overthinking it, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.
Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which turns this into more of a debate Time will tell. That’s just my read on it.
On the surface, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so
From my side, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
From a neutral view, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s what makes this interesting.
At first glance, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.
Stepping back, the way this is presented changes how it lands
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on
Looking at this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately This probably isn’t the last word on it.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to Feels like there’s more coming here.
If you zoom out, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the impression it gives me.
Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s the key detail here.
Without overthinking it, this comes across more reactive than planned and that tension shows up immediately We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.
Stepping back, this solves one problem while creating another so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Not gonna lie, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated
If you zoom out, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which turns this into more of a debate Feels like there’s more coming here.
At this point, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s just my read on it.
If we’re being honest, this solves one problem while creating another and that tension shows up immediately Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s what people are responding to
Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
If we’re being honest, this comes across more reactive than planned and that friction is hard to ignore
this comes across more reactive than planned
Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that tension shows up immediately That’s just my read on it.
From the outside, this feels more about execution than intent and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
Real talk, this feels more about execution than intent That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term.
To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
Stepping back, this reads stronger on paper than in practice This probably isn’t the last word on it.
To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s just my read on it.
Putting bias aside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s the part people are stuck on
this reads stronger on paper than in practice which explains why reactions are split Not convinced this is settled yet.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place We’ll see how people react over time.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next.
From a neutral view, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage
Putting bias aside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that tension shows up immediately Let’s see what happens next.
Just reading this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.
Real talk, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what makes this interesting. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where people will push back
At first glance, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why this is getting picked apart This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
At first glance, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Real talk, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so At least from my perspective.
From a neutral view, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here.
At first glance, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.
this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Looking at this, this solves one problem while creating another Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.
At this point, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context.
Not gonna lie, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like there’s more coming here.
From a neutral view, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, the direction makes sense but the details are messy We’ll see how people react over time.
To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where people will push back That’s just how it reads to me.
Just reading this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s the key detail here.
From my side, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Time will tell.
From my side, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate Hard to say where this lands long term.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so Curious how this plays out.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where the disagreement starts Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.
On the surface, the follow-through is what will decide this and that tension shows up immediately Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
From where I sit, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s what people are responding to Time will tell.
From a practical angle, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which makes the reaction pretty predictable This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Trying to be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this We’ll see how people react over time.
To be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which turns this into more of a debate Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.
At this point, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That part stands out. Curious how this plays out.
At this point, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s just my read on it.
Looking at this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s the part people are stuck on Others will probably see it differently.
Stepping back, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what makes this interesting.
Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why this is getting picked apart Feels like there’s more coming here.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split That’s just how it reads to me.
To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time.
If we’re being honest, the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context.
If you zoom out, this solves one problem while creating another which is why the comments look the way they do That’s just how it reads to me. That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
From a practical angle, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which explains why reactions are split Feels like there’s more coming here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit At least from my perspective.
From a practical angle, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Trying to be fair, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which explains why reactions are split That’s the impression it gives me.
From a neutral view, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why the comments look the way they do At least from my perspective.
Honestly, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split Feels like there’s more coming here.
At this point, this feels rushed rather than thought through This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back Interested to see the follow-up.
Bluntly speaking, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where it gets complicated We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.
If we’re being honest, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like there’s more coming here.
Looking at this, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which explains why reactions are split That’s the impression it gives me.
Real talk, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Real talk, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s the impression it gives me.
this comes across more reactive than planned That’s just how it reads to me.
From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This could age very differently in a week.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately This probably isn’t the last word on it.
On the surface, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place
From the outside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just my read on it.
At this point, this solves one problem while creating another Not convinced this is settled yet.
the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
If we’re being honest, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what makes this interesting. Not convinced this is settled yet.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.
Putting bias aside, this solves one problem while creating another which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
Trying to be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned which makes the reaction pretty predictable At least from my perspective.
If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Time will tell.
I get the idea, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Interested to see the follow-up.
From a practical angle, this feels more about execution than intent We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.
From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
If you zoom out, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome At least from my perspective.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context.
I get the idea, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, the signal is clear, the strategy less so
Putting bias aside, the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why this is getting picked apart
I get the idea, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Real talk, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s what people are responding to Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.
From where I sit, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
From my side, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week.
From a neutral view, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which makes the reaction pretty predictable Feels like there’s more coming here.
Not gonna lie, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s what people are responding to
Without overthinking it, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore Feels like there’s more coming here.
this comes across more reactive than planned
this depends heavily on what happens next Not convinced this is settled yet.
Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
Looking at this, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From the outside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
Stepping back, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why opinions are all over the place Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
From where I sit, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s the part people are stuck on Interested to see the follow-up.
If we’re being honest, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the impression it gives me.
From a neutral view, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s the part people are stuck on Curious how this plays out.
Not gonna lie, the wording alone shifts how people read this Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.
Bluntly speaking, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
From the outside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
Stepping back, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart Others will probably see it differently.
the wording alone shifts how people read this so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
Real talk, this comes across more reactive than planned Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that tension shows up immediately That’s just my read on it.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Looking at this, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where the disagreement starts
At this point, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to Hard to say where this lands long term.
Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s what people are responding to That’s just how it reads to me.
Putting bias aside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where the disagreement starts Curious how this plays out.
On the surface, the timing matters more than people admit
From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.
this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
From the outside, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just my read on it.
On the surface, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why this is getting picked apart That’s just my read on it.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it.
At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which makes the reaction pretty predictable
At first glance, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Without overthinking it, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here
From the outside, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts Hard to say where this lands long term.
Just reading this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.
From the outside, this depends heavily on what happens next and that friction is hard to ignore At least from my perspective.
From where I sit, this reads stronger on paper than in practice Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
this comes across more reactive than planned
Not gonna lie, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s the part people are stuck on
Just reading this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s what people are responding to That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.
Not gonna lie, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s what people are responding to Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.
From the outside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back That part stands out.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just my read on it.
Bluntly speaking, this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
Just reading this, this depends heavily on what happens next Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, the signal is clear, the strategy less so
Not gonna lie, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts
On the surface, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week.
Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s what changes the context.
Putting bias aside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what makes this interesting.
I get the idea, the timing matters more than people admit so the response doesn’t surprise me Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me.
From the outside, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back Feels like there’s more coming here.
Looking at this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like there’s more coming here.
Real talk, the wording alone shifts how people read this Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts This probably isn’t the last word on it.
From a neutral view, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.
Just reading this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s just my read on it.
Putting bias aside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Just reading this, this solves one problem while creating another which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.
Looking at this, this feels like a half-step, not a full move so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
Bluntly speaking, this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate Curious how this plays out.
the timing matters more than people admit which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, the follow-through is what will decide this which is why the comments look the way they do This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.
Putting bias aside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Hard to say where this lands long term.
From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the key detail here.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the impression it gives me.
this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where it gets complicated Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That part stands out. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Honestly, this depends heavily on what happens next and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out.
I get the idea, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where the disagreement starts Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a practical angle, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here.
Honestly, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which explains why reactions are split That’s the impression it gives me.
Not gonna lie, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit At least from my perspective.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place Hard to say where this lands long term.
From the outside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Others will probably see it differently.
Putting bias aside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what makes this interesting.
From the outside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where people will push back
If we’re being honest, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that tension shows up immediately That’s just my read on it.
From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here.
Putting bias aside, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s what changes the context.
Stepping back, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
Honestly, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where people will push back At least from my perspective.
From my side, the follow-through is what will decide this which turns this into more of a debate Others will probably see it differently.
Stepping back, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s the impression it gives me.
Honestly, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the impression it gives me.
Bluntly speaking, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me.