Finding the right people is really hard.
I joined a group of people who get together to make art for a number of reasons. One is because I can be very shy but I love art and enjoy making and showing it. The other reason is because I very few friends in the area and felt like it would be a great way to meet like-minded people who share similar interests. At one of their get-togethers last night the few people I enjoy talking to, and who run the group mentioned that they haven't been to the art museum in years. So, because today is an unusually warm day I sent both a message in a group text asking if they would like to go to the museum with me and check out a few works they said they would like to see. Of course they ghosted me. They didn't even have enough courtesy to say "maybe next time."
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It's frustrating when you're trying to connect and people just disappear; you deserve better than that.
Its frustrating to put yourself out there and get ignored; it makes you wonder if these people are really interested in building a community at all.
It's rough when you put yourself out there and people just vanish; it's like they don't realize how much it stings.
That kind of ghosting really stinks, especially when youre trying to connect; it seems like some people just dont get that its about more than just
Its tough putting yourself out there, but it sounds like you deserve better friends who actually respond.
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Sounds like you're putting yourself out there, but it's frustrating when people don't reciprocate. Maybe next time try reaching out to a wider circle?
Sounds like you put yourself out there, and it's rough when others don't meet you halfway. Maybe try connecting with a different group next time?
Sounds like a real letdown; its tough when youre putting yourself out there and folks just vanish.
Sounds like youre putting in the effort while theyre just enjoying the free ride. Keep looking; there are better people out there.
Sounds like you put yourself out there and got nada in returndefinitely a letdown. Keep trying, though; not everyones as flaky as they seem.
Why do you keep chasing after people who can't even bother to respond? You deserve better than that.
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Honestly, it sounds like you poured your heart into reaching out, and it's frustrating when people don't reciprocate. Keep putting yourself out there, though; the right
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Wow, that sucks. You'd think if they're running the group, they'd at least acknowledge your invite.
Its tough when you put yourself out there and people leave you hanging like that; makes it clear finding genuine connections isn't as easy as it
Sounds like a classic case of people saying they want to connect but then disappearing when it actually counts. Keep putting yourself out there; not everyone
Sounds like a classic case of people just not putting in the effort; its frustrating when you try to connect and they dont reciprocate.
It's frustrating to reach out like that only to get ignored; it really shows how tough it can be to find genuine connections.
Sounds like you were really putting yourself out there, and it's frustrating when people don't reciprocate. Don't let it get you downthere are plenty of others
Thats rough; it sucks when youre trying to connect and people dont even give you the decency of a response.