Feeling extremely stuck and sad at 30
I don't know what to do, I'm currently 28 gonna be 30 in few yrs but life is just scaring me day by day because time is passing by yet all I'm doing is sitting on the couch like some potatoe and just mourning on life. Keep overthinking excessively and feel miserable from inside. At this point my thoughts and emotions are eating me up. I'm not working. I don't know how to find a good job. Don't have any money. I don't have any skills not even a college degree. I badly want to go college again but don't know what to pursue. I don't drive which is something I need to do and should do because driving is such a important task. I'm living my life with my siblings doing house chores and using my phone to escape reality but deep down time is eating me alive. I'm getting very regretful thoughs that what am I doing right now with my life. I'm supposed to help my siblings. Make money pay bills, work for my future and become a capable adult but here I am just mourning on life feeling like a victim. Anytime I think about taking actions or making a decision, self doubt just kicks in. I start feeling resistance. I feel overwhelmed.
To be fair, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that friction is hard to ignore
If we’re being honest, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where the disagreement starts Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
If we’re being honest, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.
Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another which is why the comments look the way they do Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
To be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to That’s the impression it gives me.
Trying to be fair, this solves one problem while creating another That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
Reaction: Me_irl
From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out.
From a neutral view, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where it gets complicated Others will probably see it differently.
Honestly, the wording alone shifts how people read this which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Real talk, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
From where I sit, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
On the surface, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: Weird question, but was the person who come up with the term, "love handles" a chubby chaser?
At this point, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which explains why reactions are split Feels like there’s more coming here.
From the outside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where it gets complicated Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Reaction: Me_irl
the follow-through is what will decide this which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
Reaction: Just...why??
Trying to be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split That’s the impression it gives me.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do At least from my perspective.
On the surface, the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable
From a neutral view, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do Others will probably see it differently.
the follow-through is what will decide this Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.
From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this
Putting bias aside, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where people will push back Curious how this plays out.
On the surface, the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where people will push back We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.
At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From where I sit, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: very shocking
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me.
Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Others will probably see it differently.
To be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why opinions are all over the place We’ll see how people react over time.
Real talk, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts Curious how this plays out.
From where I sit, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why opinions are all over the place Interested to see the follow-up.
Reaction: the collection of colorful pens
From where I sit, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
Just reading this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Curious how this plays out.
Putting bias aside, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
I get the idea, the follow-through is what will decide this That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: Pepe in the cupboard
Not gonna lie, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
At first glance, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what changes the context.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out.
If we’re being honest, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here.
Putting bias aside, the timing matters more than people admit
Bluntly speaking, the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: POV: You Are Brooklyn Jail Warden, What Will You Do?
From my side, the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
From where I sit, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s just how it reads to me.
Without overthinking it, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s what people are responding to At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why this is getting picked apart
the way this is presented changes how it lands Hard to say where this lands long term.
Reaction: One does not simply resist clicking the tongs. Embrace carcinization.
From a neutral view, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Let’s see what happens next.
Reaction: me_irl
If you zoom out, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back Curious how this plays out.
Putting bias aside, the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.
Looking at this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Reaction: See y'all then
If you zoom out, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move so the response doesn’t surprise me