Yasemin Toraman

@whitegorilla267316 · Jan 10, 2026 at 8:00 pm

feeling alone, seems like everyone but me is obsessed with sex

for starters i apologize if this doesn't fit the subreddit, i've been trying to figure out the best/most beneficial place to post this. i'm really just looking for insight on why i feel this way. if this breaks any rules please let me know
i often get the feeling that people are obsessed with sex. to me, it feels like most people are constantly thinking about sex and i'm just the only one who doesn't understand. it could be from my lack of sexual experience (though i do have a little), but i just feel a bit put off when people do or talk about sexual things they've done (jokes are fine).
for example, my friend is very much into doing strip shows and has a pole at home that she's been practicing on. when she shows our friend group videos of her performances (nothing big, just small cosplay strip shows at conventions) and when she practices on webcam on her pole at home i just feel annoyed and a little repulsed by her. she is my friend but i also can't let go of this annoying feeling like she's just showing off, yet everyone else is just cheering her on. i know that it's wrong, but i don't understand why i feel this way.
i also can't wrap my head around how most people can sleep with