Every year I add more grief to my calendar and it’s getting heavy
Lately I’ve been noticing my calendar filling up with dates tied to people I’ve lost. Birthdays, the day they passed - ( I can’t imagine widowers on top of that )
Because as time goes on, that list is only going to grow. And I don’t know if that’s healthy or even sustainable. At some point it feels like every week/month is tied to grief, on top of the birthdays and holidays for people who are still here.
Even worse if you come from a large family
Just reading this, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
To be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this We’ll see how people react over time.
To be fair, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Curious how this plays out.
To be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back Interested to see the follow-up.
From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out.
Putting bias aside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that friction is hard to ignore Let’s see what happens next.
At first glance, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate
Stepping back, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.
From the outside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s the part people are stuck on Curious how this plays out.
Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where people will push back This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.
the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where it gets complicated Curious how this plays out.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here.
On the surface, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that tension shows up immediately
Real talk, this feels like a half-step, not a full move This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From where I sit, this comes across more reactive than planned
On the surface, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that friction is hard to ignore
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place
I get the idea, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that friction is hard to ignore Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
At this point, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting.
Stepping back, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context.
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
If we’re being honest, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
Stepping back, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that tension shows up immediately That’s the impression it gives me.
I get the idea, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
From my side, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context.
Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why opinions are all over the place Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome We’ll see how people react over time.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move This probably isn’t the last word on it.
At this point, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what changes the context.
Real talk, this depends heavily on what happens next and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where people will push back We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.
the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why the comments look the way they do This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.
On the surface, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where the disagreement starts Others will probably see it differently.
I get the idea, the direction makes sense but the details are messy so the response doesn’t surprise me Time will tell.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.
Trying to be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context.
Putting bias aside, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
Looking at this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.
Stepping back, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.
Just reading this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week.
From my side, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated Not convinced this is settled yet.
Looking at this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
I get the idea, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s the part people are stuck on We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At first glance, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where people will push back That’s what makes this interesting.
If you zoom out, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s just how it reads to me. That’s the impression it gives me.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why the comments look the way they do Others will probably see it differently.
If you zoom out, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s what people are responding to This could age very differently in a week.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
At this point, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why opinions are all over the place
From a practical angle, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.
Looking at this, the wording alone shifts how people read this