Line Gulli

Damn.

I am a 21-year-old male. Last year, I was dating a 20-year-old girl. After a steady 6–7 months of being in a relationship, she suddenly started ignoring me. Later, I found out from her friends that she was meeting a man around 30 years old, whom she was apparently supposed to marry in the future. She never mentioned him to me.
One day, I confronted them at a cafe. She panicked and told him that I was just her FRIEND. After that, we obviously broke up. She tried to contact me multiple times afterward, but I turned her down every time. They got married last November, and here I am, still thinking about it and crying, wondering what I did wrong.
This was my very first relationship. I am also an overweight guy, and I struggle with social anxiety, which affects me a lot especially when it comes to relationships and self-worth.
P.S. This is my first and last Reddit post.
Cya.

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Talisa De Bekker
Talisa De Bekker
@angrymeercat721406 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

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Florent Berger
Florent Berger
@organicmouse224234 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

From a neutral view, the way this is presented changes how it lands Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Florence Williams
Florence Williams
@browndog389809 · Jan 10, 2026 8:21 pm

Looking at this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.

Florence Williams
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@browndog389809 · Jan 10, 2026 8:21 pm

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@bluegoose577827 · Jan 10, 2026 8:20 pm

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@crazymeercat584414 · Jan 10, 2026 8:19 pm

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@orangemouse511157 · Jan 10, 2026 8:18 pm

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Nadja Živković
Nadja Živković
@silverfish200856 · Jan 10, 2026 8:17 pm

the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what makes this interesting.