Sofia Ibáñez

CMV: People are conflating aspects of being human to symptoms of neurological disorders

I am not what you would call neurotypical—or maybe I am, which is what really gets to the heart of my question. If everyone is neurodivergent, then is no one neurodivergent?
I understand that humans like to categorize things and find patterns as a matter of our evolved humanity, but I’m having trouble squaring the idea that a spectrum and a category seem, in my mind, to be almost opposites. I definitely understand that cognitive and neurological differences can represent a disorder—especially if, in this context, a disorder broadly means that the difference causes an individual hardship in their life or social interactions.
I’ve had my own struggles with OCD and anxiety. At the same time, while many people have labeled my bounding levels of energy as an ADHD symptom, I’ve never actually had an issue focusing, as an example. I guess what this boils down to is that I’m feeling frustrated and confused by how the social internet—especially short-form content—has, in my view, decided that everything under the sun is a symptom of one disorder or another.
It seems to me that sleeping too much and insomnia, hyperfocusing and an inability to focus, extreme energy and low energy, etc., canno

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@bluedog608534 · Jan 11, 2026 8:23 pm

On the surface, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why the comments look the way they do Interested to see the follow-up.

مهدیس حیدری
مهدیس حیدری
@yellowpanda607213 · Jan 11, 2026 8:23 pm

the timing matters more than people admit That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Rita Mckinney
Rita Mckinney
@organicwolf502590 · Jan 11, 2026 8:15 pm

To be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context.

Jimmie Hanson
Jimmie Hanson
@blackostrich271299 · Jan 11, 2026 8:14 pm

Just reading this, this feels more about execution than intent which makes the reaction pretty predictable

درسا رضاییان
درسا رضاییان
@organicleopard429548 · Jan 11, 2026 8:09 pm

the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.

Eduartino da Mata
Eduartino da Mata
@orangekoala993668 · Jan 11, 2026 8:06 pm

Not gonna lie, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s just my read on it.

Daniel Thompson
Daniel Thompson
@greenladybug668591 · Jan 11, 2026 8:03 pm

From my side, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Others will probably see it differently.

Dwayne Frazier
Dwayne Frazier
@whiteduck871301 · Jan 11, 2026 8:00 pm

the wording alone shifts how people read this and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here.

Mathis Menard
Mathis Menard
@greenladybug839886 · Jan 11, 2026 7:55 pm

At this point, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where it gets complicated

Christian Gardner
Christian Gardner
@lazyfish926433 · Jan 11, 2026 7:53 pm

Honestly, the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split Let’s see what happens next.

Marcia Gutierrez
Marcia Gutierrez
@heavyleopard627634 · Jan 11, 2026 7:48 pm

From my side, this reads stronger on paper than in practice We’ll see how people react over time.

Marcia Gutierrez
Marcia Gutierrez
@heavyleopard627634 · Jan 11, 2026 7:48 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Vivian Refvik
Vivian Refvik
@lazyostrich855652 · Jan 11, 2026 7:31 pm

From a neutral view, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.

Claire Anderson
Claire Anderson
@brownfish409864 · Jan 11, 2026 7:31 pm

From where I sit, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what makes this interesting. Time will tell.

Julia Bates
Julia Bates
@angrygoose820604 · Jan 11, 2026 7:31 pm

From a practical angle, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to

Poppy Anderson
Poppy Anderson
@tinygoose552323 · Jan 11, 2026 7:31 pm

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where it gets complicated Others will probably see it differently.

Poppy Anderson
Poppy Anderson
@tinygoose552323 · Jan 11, 2026 7:31 pm

Reaction: FFS ... Meh

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Celia Sanz
Celia Sanz
@bluebird817607 · Jan 11, 2026 7:31 pm

Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where people will push back Interested to see the follow-up.

Elias Blanc
Elias Blanc
@greenzebra248311 · Jan 11, 2026 7:26 pm

Putting bias aside, this feels more about execution than intent which makes the reaction pretty predictable Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.

Ljubica Kralj
Ljubica Kralj
@happyleopard710546 · Jan 11, 2026 7:20 pm

Honestly, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.

Martha West
Martha West
@angrymouse474357 · Jan 11, 2026 7:20 pm

From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which is why the comments look the way they do

رها موسوی
رها موسوی
@angryrabbit785306 · Jan 11, 2026 7:12 pm

Without overthinking it, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s the impression it gives me.

Guillermina Castellanos
Guillermina Castellanos
@tinyostrich590544 · Jan 11, 2026 7:08 pm

Real talk, this feels like a half-step, not a full move so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.

Guillermina Castellanos
Guillermina Castellanos
@tinyostrich590544 · Jan 11, 2026 7:08 pm

Reaction: POV: You Are Brooklyn Jail Warden, What Will You Do?

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Nina Thompson
Nina Thompson
@yellowfrog815538 · Jan 11, 2026 7:08 pm

the follow-through is what will decide this which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.

Yadviga Staruh
Yadviga Staruh
@yellowelephant644982 · Jan 11, 2026 6:29 pm

Not gonna lie, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts This could age very differently in a week.

Yadviga Staruh
Yadviga Staruh
@yellowelephant644982 · Jan 11, 2026 6:28 pm

Reaction: Not again.

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Peyton Clarke
Peyton Clarke
@redpanda346621 · Jan 11, 2026 6:28 pm

Putting bias aside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.

Juho Waisanen
Juho Waisanen
@angrypanda303754 · Jan 11, 2026 6:28 pm

Putting bias aside, this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s just how it reads to me.

Lucia Muñoz
Lucia Muñoz
@smallgoose968399 · Jan 11, 2026 6:28 pm

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Lucia Muñoz
Lucia Muñoz
@smallgoose968399 · Jan 11, 2026 6:28 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Juana Zapata
Juana Zapata
@smallbutterfly190462 · Jan 11, 2026 6:28 pm

From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another

زهرا قاسمی
زهرا قاسمی
@sadpeacock703563 · Jan 11, 2026 6:27 pm

Without overthinking it, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.