Noam Lemoine

CMV: I need to be working as much as I can to secure my future

Good evening / morning to everyone.
I am a 19 year old male, who is going to college to be a welder, and currently employed at a machine shop working 12 hour shifts (by choice).
I have this mindset where I’m scared to enjoy my life because if I don’t work on my income now, I’m going to be forced into a situation of stress when I’m older and wish I had the room to relax but instead I’m working at a job and I’m tired by that point.
I work 48 hours a week while college is off, and once I’m done with college my hope is to work a welding job and this machinery job, as much as I can humanly without getting burn out.
I’ve been told by a few coworkers, family, older friends, etc. that I need to enjoy being young, but I can’t help but think my “young” days have passed and I need to get my shit together.
It doesn’t help that the government has me economically dependent on working every free second I have because prices keep rising and everything.
Is this the right move to make for my life? Why should I or should I not continue working every second I have available?
Hope this was a good question for having just discovered this subreddit tonight (I’m typing this while I’m falling asleep at my

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Jules Fleury
Jules Fleury
@silvercat589380 · Jan 11, 2026 8:38 pm

On the surface, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Oskari Oja
Oskari Oja
@angryelephant632825 · Jan 11, 2026 8:37 pm

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. That’s the impression it gives me.

Teka Porto
Teka Porto
@orangewolf724871 · Jan 11, 2026 8:37 pm

From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.

Tiffany Pierce
Tiffany Pierce
@crazybear876169 · Jan 11, 2026 8:37 pm

Just reading this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.

Emilio Legrand
Emilio Legrand
@lazyduck514828 · Jan 11, 2026 8:37 pm

At first glance, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.

Kerim Erginsoy
Kerim Erginsoy
@happycat660304 · Jan 11, 2026 8:37 pm

Trying to be fair, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why this is getting picked apart Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.

Emily Jones
Emily Jones
@crazybear162593 · Jan 11, 2026 8:37 pm

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here.

Giulia Mathieu
Giulia Mathieu
@saddog685341 · Jan 11, 2026 8:37 pm

From a practical angle, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.

محمدطاها قاسمی
محمدطاها قاسمی
@browndog618499 · Jan 11, 2026 8:29 pm

this comes across more reactive than planned That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Radha Botman
Radha Botman
@orangeswan771991 · Jan 11, 2026 8:27 pm

the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place Time will tell.

Yustina Yanovich
Yustina Yanovich
@goldenmeercat959724 · Jan 11, 2026 8:23 pm

Without overthinking it, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next.

Aditya Prajapati
Aditya Prajapati
@yellowladybug160888 · Jan 11, 2026 8:18 pm

the way this is presented changes how it lands Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.

Mila Dupont
Mila Dupont
@heavycat566265 · Jan 11, 2026 8:13 pm

Real talk, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Libid Kostenko
Libid Kostenko
@crazyfish109440 · Jan 11, 2026 8:08 pm

Just reading this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven

Angelika Johansson
Angelika Johansson
@beautifuldog553927 · Jan 11, 2026 8:08 pm

Looking at this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.

Jacinto Valencia
Jacinto Valencia
@tinyduck606990 · Jan 11, 2026 8:01 pm

From where I sit, the way this is presented changes how it lands which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me.

Jacinto Valencia
Jacinto Valencia
@tinyduck606990 · Jan 11, 2026 8:01 pm

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Silvijn Kloosterhuis
Silvijn Kloosterhuis
@blackwolf991815 · Jan 11, 2026 8:01 pm

Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next and that friction is hard to ignore Time will tell.

Emma Romero
Emma Romero
@ticklishzebra296728 · Jan 11, 2026 7:57 pm

If you zoom out, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where people will push back Feels like there’s more coming here.

Emma Romero
Emma Romero
@ticklishzebra296728 · Jan 11, 2026 7:57 pm

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Xavier Margaret
Xavier Margaret
@brownrabbit628343 · Jan 11, 2026 7:53 pm

Not gonna lie, this solves one problem while creating another so the response doesn’t surprise me Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.

Kerim Abadan
Kerim Abadan
@whitekoala494577 · Jan 11, 2026 7:43 pm

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet.

Joshua Moore
Joshua Moore
@heavyzebra279180 · Jan 11, 2026 7:43 pm

Not gonna lie, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Catherine Wade
Catherine Wade
@yellowdog485667 · Jan 11, 2026 7:43 pm

I get the idea, this solves one problem while creating another which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.

Mestan Akar
Mestan Akar
@lazyfish757527 · Jan 11, 2026 7:37 pm

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the impression it gives me.

Silvio Häberle
Silvio Häberle
@orangebird712882 · Jan 11, 2026 7:29 pm

At this point, this solves one problem while creating another Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.

Felecia Sanchez
Felecia Sanchez
@happysnake410546 · Jan 11, 2026 7:29 pm

I get the idea, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone At least from my perspective.

Zorina Zolotnickiy
Zorina Zolotnickiy
@blackgoose368866 · Jan 11, 2026 7:25 pm

At this point, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week.

Dobrisvit Gonskiy
Dobrisvit Gonskiy
@smallladybug804661 · Jan 11, 2026 7:21 pm

the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Indie Clarke
Indie Clarke
@bluebear777741 · Jan 11, 2026 7:19 pm

From a practical angle, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that tension shows up immediately

Indie Clarke
Indie Clarke
@bluebear777741 · Jan 11, 2026 7:19 pm

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Aubrey Lynch
Aubrey Lynch
@blackladybug235536 · Jan 11, 2026 7:12 pm

From a practical angle, this solves one problem while creating another That’s the key detail here.

Aubrey Lynch
Aubrey Lynch
@blackladybug235536 · Jan 11, 2026 7:12 pm

Reaction: literally 1984

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Mustafa Klap
Mustafa Klap
@blackelephant118883 · Jan 11, 2026 6:42 pm

From a practical angle, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where it gets complicated

Angeline Van der Zalm
Angeline Van der Zalm
@orangekoala191251 · Jan 11, 2026 6:42 pm

Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.

Angeline Van der Zalm
Angeline Van der Zalm
@orangekoala191251 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

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Eleanor Dixon
Eleanor Dixon
@silvergoose433873 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

To be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which explains why reactions are split Let’s see what happens next.

Eleanor Dixon
Eleanor Dixon
@silvergoose433873 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

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Katherine Fitzgerald
Katherine Fitzgerald
@blueswan323692 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what changes the context.

Katherine Fitzgerald
Katherine Fitzgerald
@blueswan323692 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

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Nadja Živković
Nadja Živković
@silverfish200856 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

Not gonna lie, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.

Nadja Živković
Nadja Živković
@silverfish200856 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

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Justina Wensveen
Justina Wensveen
@blackdog947323 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

Just reading this, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up.

Menno Smeding
Menno Smeding
@brownsnake970513 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

this comes across more reactive than planned

Helmi Hatala
Helmi Hatala
@smallduck994500 · Jan 11, 2026 6:41 pm

Honestly, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where the disagreement starts Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.