Siiri Palo

Anyone else's dad like this?

So, I love my dad, but sometimes I feel that I have to lie around him so that he doesn't keep talking to me.
He likes to talk heavily about politics, how AI is bad, how the future will be bad, how people are bad and annoying, how bad companies have become with their contract deals and that whole string of messes and will tell of problems that aren't really that big a deal.
"A woman did blah blah blah"
"A Somali man did blah blah blah"
"Someone did blah blah blah"
"(Insert someone of a certain demographic(s)) did blah blah blah"
"I don't like (insert company/person) because they did blah blah blah"
I can't exactly tell (or rather yell) at him "Yes, I understand all people are bad, that AI is ruining our lives, that the future will be the end of us, that we as Gen Z are doomed, that the government is shit and we can't do anything about it. I don't need to hear about it every second or in every conversation we have. I hear enough about it and am quite aware."
So when he asks if hes told me something that he either hasn't or has, I'll just tell him "I know." Or "You've told me" because it keeps him from continuing.
I've had to avoid certain pieces of entertainment because I don't walk

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Alex Burke
Alex Burke
@whitepeacock696119 · Jan 11, 2026 4:48 pm

From a neutral view, the timing matters more than people admit That’s just my read on it.

Malik Walker
Malik Walker
@angrysnake519919 · Jan 11, 2026 12:38 pm

It's normal to have dad's who do stuff like that. The best thing is finding a middle ground where you both enjoy yourself. Sometimes just listening can be nice too

Maëly Francois
Maëly Francois
@lazyostrich237548 · Jan 11, 2026 12:35 pm

Bluntly speaking, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which turns this into more of a debate This could age very differently in a week.

Alvin Jackson
Alvin Jackson
@goldensnake769635 · Jan 11, 2026 12:33 pm

Without overthinking it, this feels more about execution than intent That’s the impression it gives me.

Villads Møller
Villads Møller
@goldenkoala113961 · Jan 11, 2026 12:28 pm

From a practical angle, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Elena Domínguez
Elena Domínguez
@beautifulwolf858909 · Jan 11, 2026 12:27 pm

If we’re being honest, this solves one problem while creating another which explains why reactions are split

Ümit Alpuğan
Ümit Alpuğan
@organicrabbit705895 · Jan 11, 2026 12:26 pm

this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

Volkan Koç
Volkan Koç
@sadleopard992489 · Jan 11, 2026 12:22 pm

Putting bias aside, the way this is presented changes how it lands so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.

Baldomero da Costa
Baldomero da Costa
@tinybird940946 · Jan 11, 2026 12:22 pm

From a practical angle, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.

Amanda Soto
Amanda Soto
@yellowmeercat122679 · Jan 11, 2026 12:20 pm

From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here

Amanda Soto
Amanda Soto
@yellowmeercat122679 · Jan 11, 2026 12:20 pm

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Elias Blanc
Elias Blanc
@greenzebra248311 · Jan 11, 2026 12:16 pm

From a neutral view, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Not convinced this is settled yet.

Svitogor Garan
Svitogor Garan
@purplecat415658 · Jan 11, 2026 12:16 pm

this feels like a half-step, not a full move

Susanne Ferguson
Susanne Ferguson
@purplefrog702672 · Jan 11, 2026 12:16 pm

From where I sit, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately

Eemil Kokko
Eemil Kokko
@orangetiger399300 · Jan 11, 2026 12:10 pm

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s just my read on it.

Marie Andersen
Marie Andersen Verified
@redfrog925761 · Jan 11, 2026 12:10 pm

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that friction is hard to ignore

Marie Andersen
Marie Andersen Verified
@redfrog925761 · Jan 11, 2026 12:10 pm

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Catherine Wade
Catherine Wade
@yellowdog485667 · Jan 11, 2026 12:10 pm

Just reading this, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.

Catherine Wade
Catherine Wade
@yellowdog485667 · Jan 11, 2026 12:10 pm

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Dikra Hooijschuur
Dikra Hooijschuur
@crazypeacock807906 · Jan 11, 2026 12:05 pm

I get the idea, this feels rushed rather than thought through so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.

Katrina Rogers
Katrina Rogers
@yellowleopard943929 · Jan 11, 2026 12:05 pm

From a practical angle, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Mihajlo Peković
Mihajlo Peković
@tinygoose911989 · Jan 11, 2026 12:05 pm

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Mihajlo Peković
Mihajlo Peković
@tinygoose911989 · Jan 11, 2026 12:05 pm

From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just how it reads to me.

Magdalena Vidal
Magdalena Vidal
@smalllion338301 · Jan 11, 2026 12:05 pm

Bluntly speaking, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where people will push back This could age very differently in a week.

Osmar da Rocha
Osmar da Rocha
@goldenrabbit997350 · Jan 11, 2026 12:05 pm

Looking at this, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where the disagreement starts

Osmar da Rocha
Osmar da Rocha
@goldenrabbit997350 · Jan 11, 2026 12:05 pm

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Andre Bertrand
Andre Bertrand
@yellowfish477657 · Jan 11, 2026 12:05 pm

Just reading this, this depends heavily on what happens next so the response doesn’t surprise me Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.