Am I weird for not wanting to drink until I turn 21?
Where I (20) live, it’s illegal to drink or smoke if you’re under 21, and I’m choosing to follow this law. But almost all of my friends and family members have drank or smoked while underage and I feel kind of like a black sheep. Everyone seems to respect my wishes, although when my dad offers me a sip of alcohol and I say no, he’s like “c’mon! you only have a couple more months until you’re 21”.
Am I “different” for not wanting to participate in underage drinking or smoking?
You’re not weird at all! Choosing to follow the law and make smart decisions for yourself shows maturity. It’s great that you’re staying true to your values, especially when so many feel pressure to drink. That kind of self-awareness will serve you well in life.