Mathis Menard

Am I weird for not wanting to drink until I turn 21?

Where I (20) live, it’s illegal to drink or smoke if you’re under 21, and I’m choosing to follow this law. But almost all of my friends and family members have drank or smoked while underage and I feel kind of like a black sheep. Everyone seems to respect my wishes, although when my dad offers me a sip of alcohol and I say no, he’s like “c’mon! you only have a couple more months until you’re 21”.
Am I “different” for not wanting to participate in underage drinking or smoking?

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Gelske Coppelmans
Gelske Coppelmans
@orangeswan168865 · Jan 11, 2026 11:14 am

Just reading this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven so the response doesn’t surprise me

Eduartino da Mata
Eduartino da Mata
@orangekoala993668 · Jan 11, 2026 11:11 am

Stepping back, the way this is presented changes how it lands which turns this into more of a debate That’s what makes this interesting.

Philip Jensen
Philip Jensen
@silverpeacock471409 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

Reaction: This meme is brought to you by a lack of sleep

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Cathrine Løvik
Cathrine Løvik
@goldencat275565 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

this solves one problem while creating another This could age very differently in a week.

Dobroslav Rađen
Dobroslav Rađen
@whitebird871189 · Jan 11, 2026 10:58 am

this comes across more reactive than planned That’s just how it reads to me.

Héctor Álvarez
Héctor Álvarez
@happytiger673802 · Jan 11, 2026 10:55 am

Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit which is why this is getting picked apart This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Cathrine Løvik
Cathrine Løvik
@goldencat275565 · Jan 11, 2026 10:49 am

this feels more about execution than intent This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Vaani Anand
Vaani Anand
@goldenmeercat318807 · Jan 11, 2026 10:41 am

At first glance, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting.

Vaani Anand
Vaani Anand
@goldenmeercat318807 · Jan 11, 2026 10:41 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Willard Russell
Willard Russell
@blackmeercat220250 · Jan 11, 2026 10:24 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.

Nurdan Durmaz
Nurdan Durmaz
@ticklishlion781102 · Jan 11, 2026 10:15 am

Without overthinking it, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where it gets complicated Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Ülkü Başoğlu
Ülkü Başoğlu
@blackgoose598384 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

At this point, this solves one problem while creating another Interested to see the follow-up.

Emilie Roy
Emilie Roy
@purplegoose684366 · Jan 10, 2026 8:26 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Heimo Göller
Heimo Göller
@bluecat397191 · Jan 10, 2026 8:26 pm

Reaction: That worked out well

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Emily Burke
Emily Burke
@greengorilla388805 · Jan 10, 2026 8:25 pm

Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit