17F I have a really good life so why do I still feel so bad?
My family adores me, I have good friends, I have always been a #1 student, I have never had any money issues in my life (God my family can afford to pay a private college for me and still live normally) so I don’t understand why I always feel so bad and depressed when some of my friends have worse problems than me
But I just can’t stop crying in the night or feeling empty and how much I’m going to waste my life and end up miserable and I already hate myself and my face and everything about me and even though I go to college it wasn’t in a degree I wanted, and I wanted to have a happy life with a husband and kids but even that idea has been disgusting me and it looks impossible for me
So now I end up pretending I’m happy and just bottling up my feelings when I’m actually depressed for being sad because I have no excuse to feel bad for anything
I hate this
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
Trying to be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s what people are responding to
If you zoom out, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here. Time will tell.
Reaction: me_irl
Real talk, this depends heavily on what happens next Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From the outside, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where people will push back Not convinced this is settled yet.
Just reading this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which turns this into more of a debate At least from my perspective.
Looking at this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate
Looking at this, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s just my read on it.
Bluntly speaking, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
Real talk, the direction makes sense but the details are messy
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Just reading this, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context.
To be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where it gets complicated
this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s the impression it gives me.
At first glance, the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me.
Just reading this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why the comments look the way they do That part stands out.
Looking at this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where people will push back Not convinced this is settled yet.
this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where the disagreement starts
Putting bias aside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately At least from my perspective.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.